Amargith
Hotel California
- Joined
- Nov 5, 2008
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- MBTI Type
- ENFP
- Enneagram
- 4dw
- Instinctual Variant
- sx/so
You're in no position to disagree. You don't know what you are talking about.
Developing a mature Feeling function does not leave one exposed to over-sensitivity to the opinions of others. As I said, it's immature and undesirable. Not all Fs are emo teens, either.
:rolli: As opposed to you who knows everything about F-females, right?
I'm not saying that all F's are emo teens. And I'm not disagreeing with the fact that it oversensitivity is wrong. It's part of the challenges an F faces in her life. Just like a T faces having to deal with the fact that not everyone can be convinced using logic, and they're not always right because they think their logic is correct. Not learning this results in insensitivity towards others and being ostracized. I do think we disagree strongly on what 'oversensitivity' in F-females is though.
I was just curious - it wasn't a judgment.
Because you think that you understand NTs? Surely some NTs are sensitive and others are not. There are a great many more who pretend to be and learn to mimic social cues in order not to be ostracized and judged for being an "abnormal" female...
Just making sure that you didn't take it as an attack. Can't help it, it's a knee-jerk reaction
I never claimed I understood NTs. I just have had a lot of conversations with NTs one on one, as I find them intriguing. I'm just sharing the general experiences I've had with them. These are things we've discussed and that they've told me, or that I've remarked to them and they gave me feedback on.