Betty Blue
Let me count the ways
- Joined
- Jan 19, 2010
- Messages
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- MBTI Type
- ENFP
- Enneagram
- 7W6
- Instinctual Variant
- sp/sx
So can my ENFP b/f. He can have a very unassuming demeanor at times, which is also why I guessed his type wrong before he tested himself. I realize now that like me, he assesses social situations cautiously before engaging in them. I think that Ni/Ne-primaries learn the rules so that we can follow them or break them at will and navigate smoothly or disruptively at our leisure. We're like snap-sociocultural anthropologists. Seriously. We identify the unique "culture" of the atmosphere and work it comfortably rather rapidly. But clearly we carry ourselves very differently. (INFJs and ENFPs that is.)
Yah, one of my closest (although i do not see her so often, we connect very deeply) friends is an INFJ and i truely adore her.
She has a genuine softness about her countered by her ability to cut through steel with her wit.