BerberElla
12 and a half weeks
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- Sep 25, 2008
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We've all seen the many threads "help type this guy/girl" that crop up, perhaps we've been guilty of it ourselves at times, I know I've been through a phase of needing to type any guy who expressed an interest in me (gave me good reasons to not go there lol).
Is it really helpful do you think?
I had the perfect chance to type my new boyfriend over the weekend by making him take the test. I even thought about it, but for the first time found that I didn't actually want to know the answer just yet.
I just didn't see the need to find out "who he was" when I was enjoying getting to know him, and figuring it all out on my own.
I mean I have a rough idea anyway, but I'm not really interested in exploring it any further.
On which side of the fence do you lie? type them or don't type them?
Would future knowledge help avoid future misunderstandings, or could having a preconceived idea of who this person should be, actually just cause misunderstandings?
Is it really helpful do you think?
I had the perfect chance to type my new boyfriend over the weekend by making him take the test. I even thought about it, but for the first time found that I didn't actually want to know the answer just yet.
I just didn't see the need to find out "who he was" when I was enjoying getting to know him, and figuring it all out on my own.
I mean I have a rough idea anyway, but I'm not really interested in exploring it any further.
On which side of the fence do you lie? type them or don't type them?
Would future knowledge help avoid future misunderstandings, or could having a preconceived idea of who this person should be, actually just cause misunderstandings?