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Hey 4s. =)
Can you explain how you relate to the concept of the soul-child? Your soul-child would be at point 1. I am curious how this manifested for you, and to what degree? Can you relate to what is written below, or did you experience it in another way? What do you think lead you to become a 4, and veer away from your soul-child 1?
This is what Palmer wrote. I copied the text below from the link.
http://www.typologycentral.com/forums/enneagram/29022-soul-child-type-four-point-one.html
Can you explain how you relate to the concept of the soul-child? Your soul-child would be at point 1. I am curious how this manifested for you, and to what degree? Can you relate to what is written below, or did you experience it in another way? What do you think lead you to become a 4, and veer away from your soul-child 1?
This is what Palmer wrote. I copied the text below from the link.
http://www.typologycentral.com/forums/enneagram/29022-soul-child-type-four-point-one.html
Within the dramatic, intense, and emotional facade of a Four is a bossy and pushy little One-ish soul child who is intent on all the other little kids behaving properly - seeing to it that none of them jumps the line, that their clothes are tidy, and that their manners are good. This soul child is a Goody-Two-shoes, prim and proper, and critical of all those who don't follow the rules. She is a stickler for fairness and correctness and gets quite angry when the other kids are bad. They are the problem children who need to be straightened out, and in this we see the Four's tendency to blame others for their problems, as well as their defensiveness when an "imperfection" about them is pointed out.
Acknowledgeing this self-righteous and resentful little soul child is difficult for a Four, since it feels like her biggest flaw, opening her up to tremendous self-attack and self-hatred. Rather than imploding her agression and directing it towards herself, bringing her soul child to consciousness is really a huge part of solving her inner suffering. The more she sees it, the more she acknowledge her defensiveness and her need to be right, and in so doing, her soul is gradually able to relinquish its control. Understanding her need to control others and make them do what she wants will expose her lack of perception of perfection of things as they are and, more important, of her own perfection. As she progressively integrates her soul child, she will see how the purity, luminousity, and inherent brilliancy of her soul were not allowed or mirrored in her childhood.
Losing touch with the Aspect of Brilliancy, which she most embodied, she felt damaged, and developed in reaction a personality stype based on estrangement, abandonment, and longing for connection outside of herself. The more she integrates her soul child, the more the little do-gooder will transform into a shining sense of inner completeness, perfection and elegance. Instead of living a life based on envy or mourning, and longing from a far for contact, she will find that the completeness she seeks is within and that the grass inside is very brilliant indeeed.