But their taste of men have never changed. No matter how rich they are, they still want the dominating, aggressive, and adventurous men with an attitude. Casanova, Lord Byron, and Hemingway are examples of such men.
Women want a bread winner only when they need stability, for themselves or their children. That's why women above 30 always try to get married, or dream of marriage. They know they will not be attractive anymore in a few years time and they need to get married to ensure their financial stability.
I can see why you say this, but it's a pretty blatant generalization. Women are all different, just as men are, and the sincere smart people are looking at individuals as they make their mating choices, not just stereotypes. (And the ones that do usually end up having a failed relationship, eventually, when they realize what they've done.)
I think the behavior is more obvious with the average teenager. Most males are very prone to chasing after physically attractive women for at least the short-term, regardless of the personality involved... or they're willing to make do for awhile with someone good-looking rather than someone with more depth. And the women tend to fall for the male who exudes strength and fearlessness, while relegating the "sensitive" male more to the "good friend" category.
Later in life, after we've experienced more things and expanded our knowledge of ourselves and how things work, we then realize that there are more important qualities and we make more nuanced and deeper decisions.
This is so going off topic.
Maybe. If it keeps going without tying back in, I'll split it off.
Women get breast implants for the same reason that men put metal balls in their penises. Sexual competition is so exciting!
<crosses legs painfully, tries to avoid falling on floor>
There is probably good reason I've never heard of the latter before. *groan*
Getting back to the OP, hmmm, I don't know. I see value in what Toonia AND Gatsby say and can't quite make sense of which is closer to the truth. What's interesting to me, though, is that if you take Toonia's tact that the standards are meant in some way to restrain women, it also means that women are complicit in their own enslavement. I have found women more uptight about their weight and appearance than men demand from them explicitly. Perhaps there is a cultural ideal that is being assimilated, but on the personal level, many men seem much more forgiving of women -- they're not required to play the skin-and-bones role of the Fifth Horseman.
It hurts to watch -- my daughter, who is slim and slight like most Asian women, and probably always will be no matter what she eats, already comments negatively about her weight... and I think she's already too skinny. I constantly reassure her that she's skinnier than many women and most would be happy to look just like her... but she persists in this thinking. I just don't understand. No one at home is talking about "being fat" -- not about her, not about anyone.