JocktheMotie
Habitual Fi LineStepper
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Seems like a man-whore and a shameless flirt. Wouldn't take his attitude towards you too seriously in that light. Do with that what you will.
Lols leave him alone, he's not on the Ne flirt train!! his got social anxiety really bad, think of him as an INTP high on caffine. Im closing the door on this guy. I might miss out I might not but I can't fight what I am, sadly I am a person that misses out on things.
Romantically? Context, dear. Your cues meant one thing, his cues meant another....in the army i used to rub my superior's offices bold head. my feelings about him where and still are that he doesn't have what it takes to assert authority.
i'm just saying, for an extravert who might be more comfortable with physical gestures it might not mean as much as it does for an introvert...
An adult should have some sense or inclination about how others might perceive their behaviors, even if they're different. In this culture, doing what he did is typically reserved for family or romance. It doesn't matter what he meant, half the country is introverts and he needs to realize how it can be perceived.
Thank you for your great advise.
It will be hard at first but after a short time I will forget all about it. From this point on I will be straight up front with him and any more funny business and I'll tell him to stop. He's a good guy I don't think he will not all the time he has to sort out his ex issue. After that if he tries I'll remind him, he said never to me, and make him chase me so hard!
"this culture"? when did we decide that [MENTION=15107]Ness[/MENTION] is american?
Does it really matter? You seem to be the master of the tangent here.
so yes, it matters: maybe her ENTP is spanish, greek, italian, turkish or even israeli, maybe she is but is too introverted to be comfortable with the gestures of her own culture... we don't know.
i see your point and:I don't know. I'm aware of cultural differences, but it was clear that she -- at the very least -- read it as stepping into her private space, since she read it in a particular way, which was confirmed by various other examples that she also read similarly (according to her).
ok, that pretty much answers that question.he's English it was flirtation.
I'm French he's English it was flirtation. He could have just cuddled the cat
Have you talked to the cat?
(maybe the cat's mad at him too!)