yeah, thanks for your advices, guys. I thought he could find this odd and even not remember my name. But I also thought, he could google my name. That's why I intentionnaly put a picture of me on public listing of websites like facebook or such. I thought it could help.
Ok, and why obnouxious? Wierd, odd ok but obnouxious?
No, im the only one baring my name on the web and on facebook!
But, ok. I didn't have any deep conversation with him. I just flashed on him and as an ENXP (but ENFP at times), i just starting asking tons of question about him, his job, where he lives, what he does and so on. I just couldn't help. That all we talked about...
yeah.... I wasn't trying to be S-interviewer... I was just trying to mine/gather informations about him before getting further, deeper.. But, ok I might have scared him off and might scare hime evn more with this email... :s
what do you suggest... in the subtitle : anything like hi and his name... ? or even longer : hi so and so from so and so you met there...??
well, in my mail, I wrote the specific reasons why I want to get to know him, what impression I got from him. I think, my email is appeling... also i re-introduce myself
Sure! I would have if I wasn't already dating someone else at that time!!!
do you think INTJs in their 30ies would share this email with close friends or family members they trust? or just keep it for them selves (which i hope!)
you got it!
do you think INTJs in their 30ies would share this email with close friends or family members they trust? or just keep it for them selves (which i hope!)
you got it!
do you think INTJs in their 30ies would share this email with close friends or family members they trust? or just keep it for them selves (which i hope!)
Cality said:Need help from INTJ guys
Obsessed is not the right word, even though i used it. I am just very interested in him. Don't worry, I am not crazy. I have a social life that keeps me busy beside this. And as hapharzard said, they are other fishes in the sea.
And it's quite normal that I answer to a thread that i wrote, isn't it? this doesn't mean, I am that obsess.
Just interested in sharing, answering and reading the posts, just curious... And it keeps me busy on poor day work and a not very sunny sunday.
But if you are a judgmental teen with nothing else to do than criticising and with poor understanding, I think, you should go your own way and not pollute this thread. Considering your weak understanding of the thread and your wrong perception of it, this might be the best thing to do !
Have a nice day!
Well sorry, mort belfry for my harsch answer. I just found that yours wasn't appropriate. But, ok...
Anyway, I am just thinking of the different behavior between an ENxP and an INTJ receiving that type of email. Apparently, INTJs wouldn't answer. I think, I would answer. I would google the person, try to get the most informations I could and then answer just for the fun. Just to see the face of the person an step into the unknown, the opportunity and think "who knows..." In the worse case, I would have make a new friend and in the worse worse case, I would have lost my time... But at least, I wouldn't have gone by an opportunity.
Any thought to add to this?