As long as it is actually her dream, then I would commend her for it.
I think in the society I live in and was brought up in, that there are enough other options for a girl that she probably wouldn't want that just because (but this may be colored by my own experience).
I really think that some roles, while they are not us and some archetypes, while they are also not us, tend to resonate and act as a gateway to get our inner beings out into the world more so than others.
I know for instance, that I feel like there are living, pulsing entities that possess me like phantom lovers and allow me to birth little bits of my soul into the world. The wife and especially the mother aren't in my blood.
I am neutral, perhaps a bit wary, about the idea of marrying. I recognize that not all marriages are the same, but I fear that many would encroach upon me and my dreams. Even the most loving and happy of marriages could serve as something of a distraction from my “real missionâ€, which I am only waking up to, but still it is not to be a wife and not to be a mother, that much I can discern.
I don’t identify with the role of wife, it is not an expression of who I am. I think, even if I was a wife, it would (I am speculating) be the difference of I go golfing, yeah and I AM a golfer! (I don’t golf).
But some women, I think really are fulfilled by being a wife and/or a mother to the point that it is their dream and it is their bliss. I’m not going to knock that, just like I don’t want people knocking my goals and aspirations (which may not be right for them).