Hi, I would say that when I am taking the persons feeling into consideration, I can be too indirect, or overly sensitive to how that person would react to what I said, and when I don't care about the persons feelings, for example, I am mad at a close family member, or expect good service from a stranger, I am very direct, and I am not at all embaressed to say what I think.
Very extreme, I guess.
I am not one to lie, I mean I have had to learn how to tell white lies, it's very unnatural to me, but once, with a really good friend, I went so far as to lie straight out, cause I was so worried, she would be crushed..
But that is very rare for me.
I think it really depends on the situation and who is involved, and we take into account what will be the ramifications of what was said.
Hope that gave you some insight, dee
Very extreme, I guess.
I am not one to lie, I mean I have had to learn how to tell white lies, it's very unnatural to me, but once, with a really good friend, I went so far as to lie straight out, cause I was so worried, she would be crushed..
But that is very rare for me.
I think it really depends on the situation and who is involved, and we take into account what will be the ramifications of what was said.
Hope that gave you some insight, dee