violet_crown
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- Jun 18, 2009
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- MBTI Type
- ENTJ
- Enneagram
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- Instinctual Variant
- sx/sp
My ENTJ was very unhealthy, and I think that was the sole cause of our demise (and my want to murder him at times).
I can see despising an ENFP's need for attention and the expectation that you'll find them irresistible. I'm certainly well aware that it can be annoying and over the top, so I try to rein it in.
That said, I'm now in a relationship with an ENFJ and he gives me all the attention I could possibly need... I haven't had to throw out any nets with him, the affection is just ready and waiting. It's refreshing, but not sure about the longevity (though he's quite certain, oops).
Despise is strong. Flustered and uncertain as to how to relate is more accurate, though annoyance can ultimately result. I'm glad that you found someone with whom you are more compatible. Best of luck.