Dyoni
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I've been dating an INFP for almost 3 years now. I am INTP/INTJ (not quite sure which... different tests seem to give me different results, but after reading these forums a bit, I think I lean more toward INTP.)
This is the best relationship I've ever had by leaps and bounds - he's caring and sensitive without being impulsive and crazy like some other 'romantic' types I've dated in the past. We've lived together for about 2 years, and everything works wonderfully.
The only strange thing is, he seems to have no desire to get married. Marriage is something that is very important to me; I feel like that's the last step in our successful relationship together. He seems to think that since our relationship is good how it is, he doesn't understand why I want to change things. I'm not sure if this is an excuse or how he really feels, but he's not very good at lying... so I'm guessing it's the truth. I am beginning to feel frustrated and betrayed.
Do any of the other INFPs on this forum have any insight to this issue? It confuses me. Help a NT understand your type >.<
This is the best relationship I've ever had by leaps and bounds - he's caring and sensitive without being impulsive and crazy like some other 'romantic' types I've dated in the past. We've lived together for about 2 years, and everything works wonderfully.
The only strange thing is, he seems to have no desire to get married. Marriage is something that is very important to me; I feel like that's the last step in our successful relationship together. He seems to think that since our relationship is good how it is, he doesn't understand why I want to change things. I'm not sure if this is an excuse or how he really feels, but he's not very good at lying... so I'm guessing it's the truth. I am beginning to feel frustrated and betrayed.
Do any of the other INFPs on this forum have any insight to this issue? It confuses me. Help a NT understand your type >.<