Almost everyone is bound to be the "one who got away" for at least one other person, no matter of type.
I can say the same thing about the girls I've been around, even when it's just casual commitments, like hanging out as friends. It's so frustrating...Many guys, especially younger ones have issues with commitment.
As a woman, I don't view spending the rest of my life with a man I love as even being remotely scary, quite the contrary, actually I would view such a life as being a blessing.
Having said that, I wish for my sister to marry Marty McFly. Having an INFJ BIL would rock my socks.
Yeah, he was pure sexy.
I've also gotten the "I don't deserve you" line more than once. It always seems to be the beginning of the end. It seems to signal the end of the relationship before it even begins. I'm not sure if other INFJs can relate. It bugs the hell out of me.
I've also gotten the "I don't deserve you" line more than once. It always seems to be the beginning of the end. It seems to signal the end of the relationship before it even begins. I'm not sure if other INFJs can relate. It bugs the hell out of me.
Yep. I've always heard things along the lines of "you're too perfect," etc. far more times than I care to remember.Trust me, you're not alone. I constantly get that BS as well.
Isn't this a typical break-up line? George Constanza's "It's me, not you."
Yep. And maybe it does have to do with age, because these are all guys that I was either interested in or had a fling with and they either passed me up or moved on because they probably saw something more sparkly or distracting (haha), but later on, realize what they had or could've had and either apologize or try to get me back.
Us INFJs are the ones you have to hunt for... once we're found, you'd better know what you've got and treat us accordingly. Otherwise, we'll sense that we'll get hurt and, if we're smart enough, we'll leave, or we'll stick around and be scorned, and then you'll never have a second chance.
*wonders what life is like where your exes have great things to say about you*