hydroponictea
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- Mar 1, 2018
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- MBTI Type
- INFJ
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- 9w8
I made an account SOLELY because I had a quick read and NO ONE talked about this with enough anger to satisfy my bad mood. Apologies if I'm repeating someone else's fire sermon.
They are VERY self righteous. This applies to most of but not all of the INFJs I know (about three out of four). They have a very clear idea of what is right, what is wrong, and it usually involves them being a special snowflake who is the only person able to see some kind of magical fantasy truth that they have concocted. They are EXTREMELY judgemental as a result of this, if you are lucky they will keep their constant criticisms of you in their head. However sometimes they will off load it onto you later in some way and then act like some sort of saint for not having loaded it onto you earlier. Of course it will be your fault that they feel this way, they are just the victim of your constant abuse. If you are unlucky they will constantly unload a torrent of abuse onto you until you snap back them and then it's straight to the victim. You souless monster, can't you see they only wanted to help?
Thanks for listening to my angry rant. If you are an INFJ who felt very targeted, I'm talking about a trend among INFJs I know. This does not necessarily apply to you. However if it does, then you know something people may find annoying about you. Having said this, going into a spiral of self hate isn't going to make you a better person. Instead, take it as a learning opportunity, or not. Actually, maybe taking a very angry online person's angry rant to heart is the worst thing you could do for yourself.
Thanks.
They are VERY self righteous. This applies to most of but not all of the INFJs I know (about three out of four). They have a very clear idea of what is right, what is wrong, and it usually involves them being a special snowflake who is the only person able to see some kind of magical fantasy truth that they have concocted. They are EXTREMELY judgemental as a result of this, if you are lucky they will keep their constant criticisms of you in their head. However sometimes they will off load it onto you later in some way and then act like some sort of saint for not having loaded it onto you earlier. Of course it will be your fault that they feel this way, they are just the victim of your constant abuse. If you are unlucky they will constantly unload a torrent of abuse onto you until you snap back them and then it's straight to the victim. You souless monster, can't you see they only wanted to help?
Thanks for listening to my angry rant. If you are an INFJ who felt very targeted, I'm talking about a trend among INFJs I know. This does not necessarily apply to you. However if it does, then you know something people may find annoying about you. Having said this, going into a spiral of self hate isn't going to make you a better person. Instead, take it as a learning opportunity, or not. Actually, maybe taking a very angry online person's angry rant to heart is the worst thing you could do for yourself.
Thanks.