Out of curiosity, I've always wondered what you get out of that?
Your question comes across as 'what do you get out of being yourself?' I think there is a lot to take away from being yourself and being able to speak out the ideas of your mind. Some of the results from it is more often than not collateral damage (or collateral gain!) that the Fe-less folk are sometimes just completely missing unless pointed out to, and usually they have to do with some kind of 'emotional nuance', so to speak.
I personally feel (haha, feel) as if sometimes people ask me for my input, and all I can do is honestly tell them what I see, what is just there and makes sense, just like @
Yuu's example. I honestly do not understand why some people would end up seeing it negatively- and do not understand what else it is they might have been asking for. What else was I supposed to say? This is not a statement of judgement or ridicule. It is pure cluenessness. A staple sentence I have come to say is that "I mean/t no malice." Even so, I get told that the things I say are sometimes prickly and even hurt, even after years and years of friendship with the person. I do not see it. I cannot consider factors I don't even know exist.
The best I can usually do is preface various conversations with, "Hey, if you ever wonder if I am feeling negatively towards you / if I am meaning something malicious with my words, feel free to ask."- sometimes it is something I have to repeat several times, but it's worth it once it sticks. I have found that the older I (and my peers) get, the more open and understanding people are, and the more willing they are to actually listen to that, though sometimes I have to initiate and show them that I truly mean it- I am clueless, please tell me. Their cooperation is something I do appreciate.
And personally, I think such an approach is a Te + Fi thing, there is the Fi in that 'I understand everyone is different and I cannot and will not force them otherwise' but backed with a Te 'But do we need to have something that works despite that, somehow' and personally? This is the best thing I can come up with. That's my side. On the other side- the person speaking with the Te-user's side- what you can do is so very excellently described in @
Ravenetta's post above. I find myself wishing for and expressing the same thing. It really is just that. It works both ways. If something I say backfires all I can wonder is "Wha-? What anger? What? Where? Why? How?" because on the other side
I do not speak that way either, such things are just often not considered and not inserted into the conversation at all.