Forgetful Functor
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- Apr 12, 2009
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- iNtP
Infinite surface area and finite volume. Oh, I'm melting!
Gotta man up. Make a clean break. Do it in person not on the phone. Allow her to yell at you or cry if she wants. You are only dating her and it doesn't sound even like you had sex with her so its not a big deal, but being congruent with your character is.
First of all, a "clean break" likely isn't possible because we have plenty of mutual friends, nor am I even averse to chilling with her in the future because she was fun and all. Secondly, we had one laid back date, so I'd be pretty disappointed in her if she yelled or cried. Finally, I don't think there's anything particularly masculine about balancing honesty and respect. I've met both men and women that have and haven't done it.
Really, I should just tell her more or less what I've said in this thread. And you are right that I should do it in person.
you have been reading David Deangelo haven't you?
Does this rag smell funny to you?
If anyone's wondering, I tried different dating method and it still didn't work. I don't have standards anymore. I would even bang a fat girl. I don't know how I can recover my ego. I have however went on a couple dates. All the dates I been (three), were only first dates. Girls never return my calls. I rather be rejected than going on a date and not getting any phones calls back. I don't know how I can recover myself SO SICK OF TRYING
If anyone's wondering, I tried different dating method and it still didn't work. I don't have standards anymore. I would even bang a fat girl. I don't know how I can recover my ego. I have however went on a couple dates. All the dates I been (three), were only first dates. Girls never return my calls. I rather be rejected than going on a date and not getting any phones calls back. I don't know how I can recover myself SO SICK OF TRYING
If I let go of my goals than how can I succeed? How can I get what I want without "trying"
Feed your Si, and indulge your Ne. (As long as you don't overdo on the Si that is. Because it'll go downhill when you do.
Someone should publish "The Player's Handbook: For INTPs". Hmm...
what can i do at this point? I have no idea what to do anymore. Just depressed