This was originally going to be a how to find, approach and date an INFJ. I'm now sure I've found one that I'm really interested in and I think she is also. I mean I read people and if I'm wrong I might as well jump off a bridge. The combination of her being an INFJ, me liking her and her liking me back has a probability of approximately 98%.
Like really awesome connection. I've never met someone who just sees straight to my soul like that. Yes, soul. Its like she read me like an open book and she doesn't even know me. And I'm a really hard to read ENXP, or so I think. She said I have this great aura. She always wanted to be near me and talk straight to me in a group setting. So very attentive I want to burst. Always those eyes looking at me when I see her. The beauty of it is that some might feel intimidated or at unease but I love it. Its also like she is a textbook INFJ, plus open minded. I don't have time to go into details about that but the thing is I really want to bond with this girl. So bad. Its making my head feel weird and its hard to concentrate on school.
How do I go about this? Only option of contacting her initially is by facebook. We're at the same uni but there are no options confronting her there alone. I want to tell her how I think about this (the connection, seeing my soul, wanting to spend time with her) but I don't want to ruin it by splurting out all my feels etc. at the get go. I also don't want to rush it, but passionate as I am, I don't know how not to. I tend to tell my feels straight up. I need guidelines for this, if there are any.
What do, INFJs? Please halp.
EDIT: Oh I just forgot. Could I or should I tell her that I've been thinking about her like 24/7 and am hoping it would help to see her?
Like really awesome connection. I've never met someone who just sees straight to my soul like that. Yes, soul. Its like she read me like an open book and she doesn't even know me. And I'm a really hard to read ENXP, or so I think. She said I have this great aura. She always wanted to be near me and talk straight to me in a group setting. So very attentive I want to burst. Always those eyes looking at me when I see her. The beauty of it is that some might feel intimidated or at unease but I love it. Its also like she is a textbook INFJ, plus open minded. I don't have time to go into details about that but the thing is I really want to bond with this girl. So bad. Its making my head feel weird and its hard to concentrate on school.
How do I go about this? Only option of contacting her initially is by facebook. We're at the same uni but there are no options confronting her there alone. I want to tell her how I think about this (the connection, seeing my soul, wanting to spend time with her) but I don't want to ruin it by splurting out all my feels etc. at the get go. I also don't want to rush it, but passionate as I am, I don't know how not to. I tend to tell my feels straight up. I need guidelines for this, if there are any.
What do, INFJs? Please halp.
EDIT: Oh I just forgot. Could I or should I tell her that I've been thinking about her like 24/7 and am hoping it would help to see her?