Chalvaks
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- Joined
- Sep 13, 2010
- Messages
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- MBTI Type
- INTJ
I'm tired of being a lurker, first off.
Second, I might be here because I find that as an INTJ friends are few and far in between. I do have them, but they have all gone off to different places. The ones I have here are what I like to call "bottom scum". Yes, I know that is harsh and maybe a little arrogant (as I see many people classify my type as) but it comes with months of dealing with others who have tried to force change. I mean change like: you should be more like us peppy, loud and do smile.
I guess this post is a mini-vent as well, but to other INTJs, do you find it hard to find friends who let you be who you are? And in return if you find such friends do you allow them to be who they are?
Or is this normal? Am I just bound to find a good person who lets me be me and I let be them every ten years or so? And if so, what should do in between?
Second, I might be here because I find that as an INTJ friends are few and far in between. I do have them, but they have all gone off to different places. The ones I have here are what I like to call "bottom scum". Yes, I know that is harsh and maybe a little arrogant (as I see many people classify my type as) but it comes with months of dealing with others who have tried to force change. I mean change like: you should be more like us peppy, loud and do smile.
I guess this post is a mini-vent as well, but to other INTJs, do you find it hard to find friends who let you be who you are? And in return if you find such friends do you allow them to be who they are?
Or is this normal? Am I just bound to find a good person who lets me be me and I let be them every ten years or so? And if so, what should do in between?