Lady_X
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- Joined
- Oct 27, 2008
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- MBTI Type
- ENFP
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- sx/sp
i know this is old but someone bumped it and i'm reading from the beginning...this is so true...i always know what people mean irl...and hate getting confused online because it messes up my whole deal...i'm usually pretty quick and can feed off of people well on their wave length but online not so much because i read most posts with several interpretations and can't trust which one is right half the time...so frustrating!Well not most but all of our "grand" social skills come from being very alert to tones and body laungage, we are like super sensitive to it. I can tell what kind of face someone is makeing, their stance and sometimes even their more subtle body laungage just from their voice with my back turned. And our over active future thinking allows us to percieve where a conversation is headed before even the speaker nows it sometime and then manipulate it. (i do this rather often) But, all of this only works in person when we can hear their voice and see them(or atleast be in the same room).
And another question is it just me or do all ENFPs have a lack of patience, I have almost none. And thus will lead to some of my outbursts on the forums, ok let me correct myself all of them LOL.
anyway...i AM impatient also...i get frustrated having to sit quietly while people tell me something after i already know what they're going to say....it's like insulting almost like they think i don't get it or couldn't figure it out.
i realize that sucks...i'm just sayin it cuz it's true.
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