I still hold on to my belief. There are no N or S or T or F or whatsoever.
There are just humans. Any other analysis of the matter, I see myself as an excuse for not wanting to deal with the real shit or to compromise ones own beliefes to learn new ones from real life people.
I think, if I live my daily life knowing about a person that he is more of a S type. And then he will surprise me with an intuitive thing, because it is for example his third function. I could say, wow this happened because S is his first and N is his third.
But where does that get me ?
The actual explanation of N,S,T,F and whatsoever in MBTI was great. It was like a definition of an experience you made in life but couldnt put in words. But now whats next ? How to go on from here ?
Dwell on analysis with every person you meet, constantly acknowledging the system to yourself ?
Or live life as it is, bearing in mind that your way of seeings things actually DOES make sense and is not a starting sign of a mental illness.
I asked myself, why J types are on this site at all. I as an irrational man have a great need to understand why things are what they are, I am looking constantly for an interpretation of the ungraspable. But howcome that J types are here. Is it because they feel the same way I do or is it because they want to pinpoint everything so much down that there is finally an answer to everything. An unique explanation of things that explains the why, the how and the who, like MBTI.
I think its time to back off, when you are faced with a model to a thing that starts to take over your rationality and therefore begins to influence your sensing capability. I will never choose sides and that's because I want to know the whole story from left to right.
What if, for example, I start a conversation knowing about MBTI with someone who is far from knowing MBTI ? Cant it be then that I will never get a connection to him, because I am too high in the clouds ?
That's the thing I meant. How much is too much ?