Rachelinpa
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- Joined
- Aug 4, 2008
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- MBTI Type
- ENFP
the title pretty much says it. i want SOMETHING, but i can't figure out what it is. my little concrete istp boyfriend is always asking me WHAT it is i want, and i can't tell him. i think on a basic level it's a desire for connection, naturally (enfp!!), but i have what i think is an objective sufficient amount of those... but it's never enough for some reason! i'm just so restless and frantic and not at all peaceful.
i'm happier around people, it makes me feel like i have meaning, and it's fun (usually), but when i'm alone... i start thinking... and then longing... but i couldn't even tell you what it is i want! i know being around people would fix the issue, but i don't think it IS what i need... or what would really settle me.
does anyone know what i mean? i've really been working on spending time alone and trying to develop Fi, but not only is it "boring," it's lonely and depressing... especially because there never seems to be any resolution.
how can i like to be alone? how can i be more restful? i really do want to get there.
i'm happier around people, it makes me feel like i have meaning, and it's fun (usually), but when i'm alone... i start thinking... and then longing... but i couldn't even tell you what it is i want! i know being around people would fix the issue, but i don't think it IS what i need... or what would really settle me.
does anyone know what i mean? i've really been working on spending time alone and trying to develop Fi, but not only is it "boring," it's lonely and depressing... especially because there never seems to be any resolution.
how can i like to be alone? how can i be more restful? i really do want to get there.