what's the difference between male enfjs and male infjs? i want to know what dominant Fe is like. i think male enfj is one of the only types that might be even more awkward for masculine gender roles than male infj. Especially! when unhealthy. do you consider yourself to have an "explosive" personality?
also, do you personally think billy corgan is an enfj?
ps i've read all tom robbins, some palahniuk, all kurt vonnegut, all tom wolfe's essay books (not his novels). bukowski makes me think of the red hot chili peppers song mellowship slinky in b major. oh, los angeles!
I don't know! I haven't met any male INFJs that I know of--I know being around people really makes me happy and if don't I start to get depressed. There's a certain energy I feel when everyone's happy and I'm out in the world.
I do play a strange role, masculine wise. My INFP friend said I had a "confident, yet gentle demeanor." I will be like, "That asshole. He needs a hug."The characteristic short, clipped speech of a man with the sort of feminine love-yness. I'm very sensitive, so I think I may tone down the emotional side of me around men to avoid being ridiculed.
Yes, I guess I'm very explosive; I'm very calm, but if it comes out I know exactly where to place the dagger, which crevice will cause maximum pain--what their weakpoint is. But I rarely need to! That only comes out when someone personally attacks me or something I stand for. For example, my fist starts to clench when people talk about childhood molestation or things like that.
I haven't ever Billy Corgan seen him in person or on video, I always thought he was mysterious and inward from magazine pictures.
I put an incident as a footnote so you don't have to read it if you don't want to[1]
P.S. I'm not good at answering open-ended questions, if you narrow your question's focus you'll get a much better answer from me.
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My dad and I ordered the same meal at Boston Market. At the counter, I received a coupon that said buy one get one free for the same meal.
Me: Hey, dad, you should go back that meal you just bought is free with this coupon.
Dad: ok..
My dad talks to the guy and he says "we will accept the coupon--we always accept coupons."
We are about to take the food back and the guy says "oh wait--no, no, no; you have to come back and use that coupon the next time."
I say, "Oh--so you're going to
waste our food and not
honor our coupon?"
and the guy stammers, "Y-y-yes, we have to do our coupons this way."
That's obviously an appeal to emotion and not logic. Logically, I step back and realize that I could have been less abrupt, or even step back further and realize that it's their policy, but that's how it goes as an emotional person.
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P.S. II Hurray for Belle & Sebastian