I see tritypes and wings making a huge difference personally. I've seen numerous people with my MBTI and main enneagram type online, and after conversing, we all notice how different we still are from each-other based on how we carry ourselves, how we react and come across. I used to think all this was heading into the whole pseudo-intellect realm myself, but after months of observing I've noticed instinctual subtypes and wings make a huge difference. I checked and compared unhealthy INTP 5s and healthy ones with myself too, hence why I doubt that played much of a role in making us act so different. It also makes more sense that there are a ton of other personality theories that we need to consider and study to understand people better. That's at-least how I see it.
Anyways, success in life to me is basically achieving my ideal career, being financially stable, making big changes in my community, proving people wrong and being respected by almost everyone in my life. I want to be looked up to, admired and respected for my intelligence and actual hard work. I basically want both internal and external validation, but I feel like internal validation is easier to achieve than external validation, and that's why I want external validation so damn bad.
How do worldly accomplishments and others' opinions of your life make you feel?
It depends on what sort of people the opinions are coming from. I don't value the opinion of someone who has nothing planned out, who ignores the facts or evidence, can only criticize and not get to the point, or only talk about the past and 'hope for the best' for the future. If certain people like that tell me I'm doing something wrong with my life or that I am heading for a dead end, I simply try not to care. If the opinion is repeated and voiced out over an extended period of time, it does start to make me question myself and attempt considering changing myself, but that's basically me at an unhealthy stage and a healthy me would never do so because I know the opinion is illogical.
If it's coming from someone who points at irrefutable evidence and sound logic, and if the person is well-accomplished and successful, I'm very likely to value that opinion or doing my best to keep up with that person or even readjust my own perspective and implement their reasoning or suggestion in.
Currently I don't feel like I've achieved any proper worldly accomplishment and am pretty depressed about that, especially because I'm currently in a toxic environment that I'm trying to leave, and I'm definitely working on accomplishing things and I'm going at it really hard according to people close to me who I did have an argument with on the topic of hard work.
What kinds of things do you share with others when you're proud?
How I have certain facts or views that make sense ultimately? Basically I tend to get really involved with certain discussions or discourse. I tend to start of weak and finish strong, and when I get my points across and even get the other party to agree or have nothing to refute, I feel really proud
I try to help people out as much as I can, and when I've accomplished that, I tend to share how happy I am that I got the opportunity to help someone with said individual(s). There have been times I've come off as too prideful (my ex chose prideful, not me) when I've talked about my rationality, my intuition and basically how I can see through some of the BS people bring up. I think the later is quite rare for me