Your posts always come across as xxTJ to me. Don't know about the rest.
E/I
-I talk a lot. As obnoxious as it sounds, I probably talk more than I listen.
-I'm comfortable giving group presentations (and often excel at them)
-Sometimes I'll speak before thinking
-I think out loud
-I'm always happy to share my latest idea/thought/opinion
BUT...
-I like a lot of alone time
-I enjoy solitary walks
-I often dodge phone calls from friends
-I have a hard time approaching new people
-I can be very private
N/S
-I think in patterns, metaphors, theories, analogies, etc...
-I usually see the big picture
-I'm completely unobservant
-I'm comfortable with concepts
-I miss details
-I link seemingly unrelated pieces of information
-I have a tough time following rules and procedures
BUT...
-I value loyalty, community, family, tradition, etc...
-I have good hand-eye coordination
-I don't have near-supernatural hunches
-I have a good memory for dates
-I love history
Why I think I'm an SJ:
-Excellent ability to memorize random things: dates, names, facts; I have a weird obsession with reference books of all kinds.
-Extreme homesickness.
-Prefer the past to the present or future.
-Love history and all social sciences.
-Dislike change.
-Lack adventure streak.
-Feel comfortable with tradition and routines.
-Not particularly rebellious.
-Am obsessed with the concept of loyalty.
-Strong sense of nostalgia.
And, the obstacles...
-Have always been disorganized. Was so disorganized as a student that I was placed in a special 1-day class for right-brained thinkers.
-Love theories and concepts, and am completely comfortable in that realm.
-Daydream a lot.
-Am oblivious to my environment.
-Worst job I ever had was as a scheduler. I screwed up all the time and was almost fired.
-No attention to detail.
-Major lazy streak.
-Always idealize belonging to groups (SJ), but never actually join anything.
-Hate making plans.
-Never stress about little things that need to be done.
@TheChosenOne: I see exactly what you're saying about the type functions, and based on what you had to go on, I agree with your conclusion. But, while the points under both introversion and extroversion were correct, the points under introversion are both correct and important to me. Yes, I like to talk a lot when I'm with people I'm comfortable around, but if I had to choose, my alone time is more important, and is my default position. The classic question about whether solitude recharges my batteries, or whether I'm more energized being around people seems like a fair litmus test. Plus, having an introverted perception as a dominant function would explain the daydreaming a bit more, and the lack of outer organization.
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OK, so it's been about six months since I first showed up and solicited a free typing. In that time, I've thought I was a lot of different things, but the past couple of months I've been pretty certain of being ISTJ. I'm about ready to consider it sold and add it as my type, but I still have a few obstacles to get past before making it official. The bullet-pointed list on page 1 is still pretty accurate, but I wanted to zero in specifically on the pro/con SJ arguments for more accuracy:
Why I think I'm an SJ:
-Excellent ability to memorize random things: dates, names, facts; I have a weird obsession with reference books of all kinds.
-Extreme homesickness.
-Prefer the past to the present or future.
-Love history and all social sciences.
-Dislike change.
-Lack adventure streak. not all Ps are adrenalin junkies, you have to remember that there are a lot of stereotypes and exaggerations out there.
-Feel comfortable with tradition and routines.
-Not particularly rebellious.
-Am obsessed with the concept of loyalty.
-Strong sense of nostalgia.
And, the obstacles...
-Have always been disorganized. Was so disorganized as a student that I was placed in a special 1-day class for right-brained thinkers.
-Love theories and concepts, and am completely comfortable in that realm. I'd say you have to be N then, no S I have ever met was that "well-balanced". And daydreaming usually seems quite stupid to them especially STs.
-Daydream a lot.
-Am oblivious to my environment.
-Worst job I ever had was as a scheduler. I screwed up all the time and was almost fired. Come on! An SJ would be perfect for that job, and that is not a stereotype. They could have found it boring, but they would have been really good at it.
-No attention to detail.
-Major lazy streak.
-Always idealize belonging to groups (SJ), but never actually join anything. that's not necessarily SJ, that's just Si.
-Hate making plans.
-Never stress about little things that need to be done.
So, looking over that list, any reason to doubt I'm an SJ? Anyone who has followed any of my previous posts, feel free to chime in on any observations from there as well. ISFJ is also a possibility, and I suppose ISTP, INTJ and even ENTP are still on the table as well. Any thoughts?
[This should probably now be moved to What's My Type...]
I'd like the thread to be moved to What's My Type, but I added this post here for continuity's sake - an addition to the original. Kind of some SJ symbolism, I guess.
Yeah, socializing drains me - I've pretty much concluded I'm introverted even though there are times when you can't pay me enough to shut up. Given the choice, I'd spend quite a bit of time alone.
The Fe vs. Fi thing has never been clear to me. Objectively, I sometimes think Fi is useless because values without context are untrustworthy*. But I also am terrible at extroverting feeling. I'm just not the world's warmest person. I am 100% loyal to the people I love, and I would do anything to support them, but apparently I fail at empathy.
Hard to explain how I view my judging process. It's not quite Thinking and it's not quite Feeling. It's more like holding an opinion or choosing a side. Then I make a logical argument for that side. It's not necessarily "rational" because opinions are subjective. But it's also not really "emotional" because it's more of a thought process than a feeling process. It's just subjective thinking.
*I'm referring to myself here... obviously not saying Fi is "useless" for everyone.
Just to expand:
1. I have an opinion on most things, and offer it readily. I'm also decisive and like predictability. (Je)
2. I hate planning, am somewhat disorganized, and I'm a procrastinator. (Pe)
That's what I mean by the way I think vs. the way I act. Is that more in keeping with extroverting the perceiving function?
Predictability = routine, things happening the way I'm used to them happening, peace, comfort, inertia, lack of change.
Planning = effort, adding things to the schedule, details, the "have-to" standing in the way of comfort.
Like I said, there's a big laziness streak in my action. Knowing objectively that planning leads to predictability does nothing to make me enjoy the planning stage more. This is a major overstatement, but I just want today to be like yesterday and I don't even want to think about tomorrow. Obviously, I'm a great deal more practical than that impulse, but in terms of my preference, it's not all that inaccurate. It's also important to mention that I wasn't raised with a very strong work ethic, and in my family, I might even be the most organized and hard-working... but that's not saying much.
Interesting. I agree with most of this, except I really seriously doubt the ESTJ for 2 reasons. First, I'm just not an extrovert, no matter how the functions break down. Second, I think Si is probably my top function, certainly higher than Te. That might account for the daydreaming and the "living in my head" aspect.
And yeah, I mentioned the list-making because it seemed like a very Si thing to do.
Thanks, VagrantFarce.
This should be interesting... I'm curious to see how this adds up...
Relationships: I'm very different with family and non-family. I'm absolutely loyal to family. I enjoy spending time with them and feel completely comfortable around them. I always answer when they call.
Non-family is different. I make friends pretty easily, but have a hard time keeping them because I do dodge their calls and cancel plans with them. [fun example: as I was typing this paragraph, my boyfriend called and I blew him off]. For a very long time, I can be pretty indifferent to people. Nothing but time can warm me up. So, if a friend/boyfriend can deal with my fickleness and slight avoidance for a long time, they win me over and have me on their side forever.
In romantic relationships, I've always said I'd be much more in love after 20 years of marriage than I ever could be just starting out. Romance doesn't hold a lot of magic for me - and I've never felt the "falling in love" emotion, at least in the way others describe it. Love for me is something that just has to grow with time - someone who sticks around through thick and thin, someone who I have memories of shared experiences, etc...
I do consider my faith to be very important to me, but I haven't actually gone to church regularly since I was 8 years old (I'm 30 now). I was raised Baptist, went through the requisite teenage agnosticism, and spent most of my 20s in seeker mode. I tried out some of the more liberal churches but found them a little too wishy-washy for me (I wanted a church, not a community service group). I guess I'm still in seeker mode, but I'm strongly considering converting to Catholicism because I like the combination of social justice and high personal moral standards.
Fi
I pretty much eat, sleep, and breathe politics. I love every aspect of it, from the inside-the-beltway stuff to the idealistic (but gratingly self-righteous) grassroots-y side. I love American history, I'm big on holidays and love all the festive ritual type stuff, love old movies (have a soft-spot for Frank Capra flicks), and I love baseball, especially my Baltimore Orioles.
I love playing around with anything that can be categorized - I own marketing books, college guides, baby names books, and other random books of lists. Sometimes, I'll set up weird little cross-discipline research projects for myself, like the time I tried to figure out a correlation between most popular baby names and favored political candidates by state (trying to test whether there are some names that are favored by Democrats/Republicans). I love demographics in general, and enjoy coming up with elaborate stereotypes like that.
Te, and like I said could be inferior Te
I also love trivia, and once or twice a month, I'll do the trivia nights at a bar. I love to go for long walks or long drives, because that gives me a chance to zone out and daydream. When I do either one of those, the outside world barely registers.
I guess one commonality with a lot of the things I like is that I like Old Things. Aside from the American history and the old movies, I have my house decorated with old furniture and use old Life magazines as wall decorations. I have a soft spot for senior citizens, and I've been called an "Old Soul" by one of my friends. But I don't always act old - I have a very playful side. It snowed the other day, and instead of shoveling it, or digging out my car, I had fun throwing snowballs. I love playing softball in the spring/summer, I love roller coasters, I joke around constantly, and my favorite pair of shoes are a beat up pair of sneakers.
Does that help?
EDIT: a few more things occurred to me that might be relevant...
-I love playing board games; mostly of the Taboo, Scattergories variety. (Si?)
-I love debating. I have some pretty quirky views that I've developed, and I love just having a beer and arguing them for fun.
I do that a lot. I think that's Ne.
-I dropped out of high school when I was 16, but even that wasn't particularly rebellious. Mostly, I just stayed around the house playing ping-pong, and ended up graduating college on time anyway. I didn't really get into any kind of trouble, and it didn't really hurt me in any way.
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I'll have to respond later... lol.
But what I can say is that I think that Ruthie is a good example of a "modernized" SJ. I think that a lot of SJ stereotypes comes from previous generations. AFAIK Ruthie is in her 20's. She reminds me of that guy Beat, he's another ISTJ who's "modernized" and doesn't fit a lot of the stereotypes.
These modernized SJs I've met seem more open to change, because change is an encouraged thing in the world at this place in time. From what I've read of SJs, upbringing effects them a lot.
Ruthie also reminds me of one of my ISTJ friends, just with the feel that they both give off (my friend is also a female). She likes theory and abstract conversations as well, but she can have a hard time with some Ne related things. She can be totally oblivious to some implications, doesn't really think about changing things, etc. I will have to summarize my thoughts on the subject later.
Intuition and Sensing are ways of perception keep in mind. Being interested in abstract topics doesn't really have a set correlation, even though a lot of Ns are interested in them. Also being interested in abstract topics doesn't have anything to do with how you perceive things.
Ruthie's an ENTp.