Lol, I don't dream about being a martyr. I dream about being the best and kill as many enemies I'd give them a real headache trying to kill me. What I do dream about also this, its kinda pathetic too. I dream about being born in the middle ages having a tough army, and waging a war with another empire ruled by a woman. Capturing her cites and her troops and then brutally slaughtering them in front of her and putting their blood on my face or something. And then taking her as my wife. That would be so awesome, I would get the best story tellers and artists to write down and draw my legacy. Similar to the
hamazanama
Ok, well if I was to fantasise that, I would be the woman, and I would kill you on the wedding night, much like
Kahina had to on hers
From link: Another legend claims that in her youth, she had supposedly freed her people from a tyrant by agreeing to marry him and then murdering him on their wedding night
Well, I've suspected my own sisters. So that goes to show.
That is so extreme.
Lol, thats good to know. I do have dyslexic however mainly with numbers and symbols ironically. But you know even if you're dyslexic you can be very smart mentally. But being thick or stupid is out of ignorance.
Ok, yes that's what I mean, I agree he was stupid, but I won;t deny that he had a certain amount of intelligence that his reading dyslexia hindered, he was however stupid and thick when it came to life, or things other than car engines and technology.
Yeah, but I understand that. Why the hell would another man say hello to you. You're your husbands wife. Its different if you walk into a store and someone says hello to you. But if a dude walking down the street say "hello" to my wife that would piss me off.
I just don't get that, I say hello, it doesn;t mean I am about to cheat, or that the man was hitting on me, what if it was an old friend which actually happened once.
A guy I knew who was 5 yrs younger than me, who I had lived with a childrens home, saw me with my ex, the poor guy came over to say hello, excited to see a familiar face in his new area, and for his troubles was strangled up against a wall with my ex screaming in his face that he should never say hello to me again and that that " my real name " girl he once knew was dead to the world.
Would you attack your missus for being to blame, would you say it was her fault men came over to her? I guess that's veiling time, which is what happened, but then even in a veil I had the muslim man direction problem, just too much.
Yes I recall you telling me this once. This is just completely stupid and unjustifiable theres no excuse for it.
Maybe, but well within his rights as a muslim husband to get angry about it.
Thats cool. At the end of the day he had the chances. I'd never want my wife to walk out on me. And sometimes I feel I am learning so much from you. Because, I could be like your husband. And I'd never want to lose a good wife over my stupidity and jealousy.
You are going to get married real soon from what I remember, I hope you take these lessons and use them yourself, you can't just expect her to bend and conform to understanding you, you have to to it for her too.
However my honest opinion is that you are not ready for marriage yet, and because of this you may just find yourself suffering the same fate.
What type did you say she was, was it ESFP again?