I love girls too....just dont understand them. You are a confusing lot.....Can you give me some hints to solving the puzzle that no man has solved.....help a fellow intj out. I'm not asking..I'm begging.
BTW, I am going to pester you for advice.....
lol Dominant feelers can definitely be an enigma.
I learn by asking many questions. I told my gf she has to tell me when she is having an emotional issue. That let's me know to ask if I'm suppose to respond in like manner. I will even go as far as asking what's the most appropriate response, especially if it's a new emotional situation we have never encountered before. I file everything away mentally. This method has really helped me.