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[Si] Si as "conservative" (semantics + misconceptions)

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My attempt to actually contribute to this community beyond fluff.

A lot of Si (and SJ) descriptions peg Si as being "conservative." Si is usually described as traditional, routine-oriented, and "conservative." This is a very broad definition. This word in particular, "conservative," is used a lot. I have found that there are a few misconceptions about what this really means.

To begin, let's take a look at the definition of "conservative" (dabbling in semantics):

con·serv·a·tive
kənˈsərvədiv
adjective
1. holding to traditional attitudes and values and cautious about change or innovation, typically in relation to politics or religion.
synonyms: traditionalist, traditional, conventional, orthodox, old-fashioned, dyed-in-the-wool, hidebound, unadventurous, set in one's ways

My problem with the popular label of "conservative" for Si rests with the bolded.

As most people understand it, "conservative" is going to refer to political ideologies. However, this is a bad assumption of Si. A better definition of "conservative" in the Si sense would be this:

maintain (something) in its original or existing state.

The above is the definition for "preserving."

Why is this important? How is this any more than a rant-fest about semantics? Let me explain.

I have, on more than one occasion, seen SJs mistype themselves because they "are not conservative." The typical SJ description depicts the Si user as traditional and conservative in the sense that they are a Republican from the 1950s. While I am in no way trying to say that SJs can't (or shouldn't) be conservative/Republican, the problem with semantics here actually leads to huge misconceptions about the type as a whole. For example, INFJ is a popular beginner mistype for ISFJ because ISFJ descriptions paint us to be traditional doormats, stuck in our oldschool ways, unable to keep up with a changing world. This is laughably untrue, and one of the reasons there is such an SJ bias. (I mean, just read that definition.)

"Preserve" would be a much better word to use. It is much more inclusive. Here is why.

The Si-dom (and perhaps aux) is not so much conservative as they are preserving. Si has a preference for the familiar. Thus, the Si-dom is likely (and the keyword here is likely) to preserve the sort of lifestyle they were raised with. For older SJs, raised in a more politically conservative time, this means that the semantics are more likely to click with them (but not always, of course).

Political ideologies aside, Si preserves what it knows. These are where the traditions come in, and not always in the "traditional" sense (heh)--think something like, "I have eaten pizza on Christmas every year for the past 20 years because of x event that happened in my childhood that started this tradition." The traditions that the SJ adopts can take the form of ideologies (conservative, liberal etc) OR something completely unrelated and more event-based, such as my previous example. "Every year I watch [movie] every [holiday] because my dad used to put it on for us every [holiday] as a kid." And now, as an adult and beyond, the Si-dom preserves that tradition.

In the end, yes, I am complaining about semantics--because calling Si and SJs "conservative" can be harmful. Not because there is anything wrong with being politically conservative, but because of its strong association with it, and how it can be a real turn off and lead to mistypings in young SJs who were raised in a different time than what the definition now allows.

This post is meant to be educational to those who consciously or subconsciously make the "Si = (politically) conservative" association. In future MBTI endevours, I highly encourage the replacement of the word "conservative" with "preserving" because it is more inclusive and has less stereotypes associated with it.

...Eh, rereading my own post I don't know how much sense I'm making or if anyone really cares or understands what I'm trying to get at. I've already typed this all out though, so whatever.
 

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I think 'preserving' is much better and getting more to the core of Si and SJ than 'conservative', any day of the week. Your post is great, you shouldn't be self conscious of it, if you are. :)

This generations' SJ's are nothing like one or two generations ago. To me, it is probably more accurate to describe a given SJ generation as embracing the shifting cultural norms. So older generation may have more difficulty doing that in todays' culture since their life was prior to that embracing and preserving their own generations' overall values, and also their personal store of experiences that they individually value - like your example. vs younger SJ's will take on and preserve their own set of experiences and the culture they arre immersed in right now, and may work on 'preserving' that in the here and now. In 40 years, todays' youthful SJ's may be seen as 'traditional' by the new generation.
 

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Exactly my point! I'm glad it came across clear enough to be understood. :D

And the reason I felt I needed to start a thread about it is because SJ descriptions are so full of words with such aspecific meanings, like "conservative," that when most people (myself included) read descriptions of SJs, they think to themselves, "Yuck! That's not me at all."

In 40 years, todays' youthful SJ's may be seen as 'traditional' by the new generation.

This in particular is very important! Worded very nicely and is basically the purpose of this thread in a nutshell. It doesn't matter how/what ideology an SJ is raised with, they are likely (likely!! not always) to continue carrying on those traditions, no matter what those are. I've always made fun of how every generation likes to bitch about the generation that comes after them because of all the things that have changed--in a way this is a part of what Si is. It's not completely adverse to change, but is wary of change until it is proven to be a "better" system than what it already knows.
 

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Such a conservative post, where is that Tert Ne? ;)

You and [MENTION=23098]Captain_Invincible[/MENTION] both with the tert Ne! :cry:
 

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You and [MENTION=23098]Captain_Invincible[/MENTION] both with the tert Ne! :cry:

How does tertiary Ne manifest itself? I am very curious about how Ne and Ti show themselves in the third and fourth places. Please give me data!
 

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How does tertiary Ne manifest itself? I am very curious about how Ne and Ti show themselves in the third and fourth places. Please give me data!

Stress and crying and overthinking everything and seeing all the different ways everything can go wrong. But I also use my baby Ne when I'm in a silly/goofball mood because Ne in small doses can be very amusing. My baby Ti likes picking apart at things to see how they work for fun, but only when I'm in the mood for that (which is rare).
 

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Stress and crying and overthinking everything and seeing all the different ways everything can go wrong. But I also use my baby Ne when I'm in a silly/goofball mood because Ne in small doses can be very amusing. My baby Ti likes picking apart at things to see how they work for fun, but only when I'm in the mood for that (which is rare).

Oh, like worrying about leaving the gas fireplace on because of carbon monoxide, despite the presence of a carbon monoxide detector?
 

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Oh, like worrying about leaving the gas fireplace on because of carbon monoxide, despite the presence of a carbon monoxide detector?

For me it's usually much more extreme than that--like, "Oh my god I'm going to do terrible on this exam and fail the class and all my alternatives are terrible" or (I get this one a lot) "It doesn't matter if I go to college or don't or do any of x amount of combinations of education/work, no matter what job I could ever possibly get no matter what none of the possibilities I'm able to see before me end with me being happy" and then going into existential-crisis mode, being super moody, hopeless, and not seeing the point in anything because I already "know" that I'm not going to get the outcome I want no matter what I do so why bother--very negative unhealthy thinking.
 

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For me it's usually much more extreme than that--like, "Oh my god I'm going to do terrible on this exam and fail the class and all my alternatives are terrible" or (I get this one a lot) "It doesn't matter if I go to college or don't or do any of x amount of combinations of education/work, no matter what job I could ever possibly get no matter what none of the possibilities I'm able to see before me end with me being happy" and then going into existential-crisis mode, being super moody, hopeless, and not seeing the point in anything because I already "know" that I'm not going to get the outcome I want no matter what I do so why bother--very negative unhealthy thinking.

Like, there's no point in trying because it isn't going to work anyway?
 

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Like, there's no point in trying because it isn't going to work anyway?

Yup, basically. However with inferior Ne I'm usually only looking at the "bad outcomes" and not the good outcomes so I only think that there's no point/hope, when really there would be if I calmed down and stopped panicking and learned how to Ne better, but since I rely so heavily in Si, my Ne really only comes out when I'm super stressed.
 

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I agree with cascado (I am bad with names lol).

The SJs of today are embracing of the new way that society is manifesting itself. We see how it's improving or could improve the human plight, so we're comfortable with it. So the SJs growing up now are more Ne because it's allowable now.

And you're right about them NOT always preserving traditions... because that is also context dependent. I don't have any traditions to preserve from my family, so I cannot relate to Si on that front. That and I hate doing things that focuses on the details. If I loved detail-oriented work, I would have stayed in biotechnology or some other technical job. Even my molecular biology professor could tell that such a job wasn't for me. So I don't do well on preserving details, like everyone assumes SJs like to do.

Si, being an introverted function, wants things to be pure. It is like Ni in the sense that it's cautious about what it lets in as they build an understanding of themselves and/or the world around them. Whereas Ne and Se doms don't care for that kind of caution to build an understanding of the world/themselves. The paradox with Pi is that it wants to be careful what it lets in ...but it's a perceiving function ...so it doesn't have much control over that haha. It's why Pi people are careful with their external environment, as that is more 'threatening' and they feel more comfortable exploring/living in their inner world.

We really need to have a better concept of what Si is, so I will come back with more as I mull this over.
 
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How does tertiary Ne manifest itself? I am very curious about how Ne and Ti show themselves in the third and fourth places. Please give me data!

Please tell me too, 'cause apparently I have developed it.

Stress and crying and overthinking everything and seeing all the different ways everything can go wrong. But I also use my baby Ne when I'm in a silly/goofball mood because Ne in small doses can be very amusing. My baby Ti likes picking apart at things to see how they work for fun, but only when I'm in the mood for that (which is rare).

This is why I think so many xSxJs are mistyped as core sixes, too; the negative usage of developing Ne, combined with the side effects it brings. People mistake the looping and paranoia for extremely unhealthy [phobic] six behaviour.
 

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This is why I think so many xSxJs are mistyped as core sixes, too; the negative usage of developing Ne, combined with the side effects it brings. People mistake the looping and paranoia for extremely unhealthy [phobic] six behaviour.

6 is actually a pretty common typing for SJs, or at least there's an interesting correlation. I'm curious as to what you think an accurately-typed SJ 6 vs. a mistyped SJ 6 looks like?
 

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[MENTION=23583]21lux[/MENTION] Your OP describes my absolute least favorite part of SJ descriptions. Something I've been bitching about for years, on and off the forum.

SJs are only "conservative" and "traditional" insomuch as they stick with whatever they, subjectively, consider to be "best". Which oftentimes has a lot to do what's going on in society. (SJs are typically very good at, if not necessarily being normal, then being very much in touch with what is normal and what isn't.) But what's going on in society might not necessarily be conservative. I imagine, for example, that groups of Black Lives Matter protesters and other social justice oriented youth are full to the brim with SJs. I work at a social justice oriented office and you'd be surprised by the number of fellow SJs I've met here.

SJs may pick and choose what modern-day "traditions" they adhere to. They may completely rebel against the "traditions" they grew up with, in favor of new "traditions" that they find later in life. Regardless, whatever structures and priorities they focus on in their lives, they are consistent with, and they take very seriously.

/ I digress, because you weren't talking about "traditional" -- but it also applies to "conservative", in that our consistency is something that tends to be associated with the stereotypical conservative mindset. Feeling that change for the sake of change is excessive. That an established system is innocent until proven guilty.
 

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I imagine, for example, that groups of Black Lives Matter protesters and other social justice oriented youth are full to the brim with SJs. I work at a social justice oriented office and you'd be surprised by the number of fellow SJs I've met here.

SJs may pick and choose what modern-day "traditions" they adhere to. They may completely rebel against the "traditions" they grew up with, in favor of new "traditions" that they find later in life. Regardless, whatever structures and priorities they focus on in their lives, they are consistent with, and they take very seriously.

I have definitely noticed this. While anyone can take up this sort of thing, there are a large portion of SJ's involved, and they're typically the most active. Though the clearer pattern I have noticed, is the vast majority of people that I come across that are into any sort of activism, are usually on the Si/Ne axis. I rarely noticed individuals on the Ni/Se axis who are actively involved.
 

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Though the clearer pattern I have noticed, is the vast majority of people that I come across that are into any sort of activism, are usually on the Si/Ne axis. I rarely noticed individuals on the Ni/Se axis who are actively involved.
Not sure about this. I think Ni/Se folks are just more quiet about it. Using my office as an example, again, I'd say the most over-represented types here are ENFPs (so goddamn many ENFPs) and INFJs, followed by ISTJs, then ENFJs. As per usual, I'm the only ESTJ.

Edit: There might be another ESTJ, but I can't tell yet. Could also be ISTJ. He's older (65-ish?), but contrary to stereotype, he's the graphic design guy.
 

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[MENTION=4945]EJCC[/MENTION] Absolutely! And don't worry--this thread is about Si misconceptions as well, so this all fits in perfectly. :yes:

I'll be able to write out a longer reply after I get home tonight but this is definitely something I've noticed as well.
 

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[MENTION=23583]21lux[/MENTION] Your OP describes my absolute least favorite part of SJ descriptions. Something I've been bitching about for years, on and off the forum.

SJs are only "conservative" and "traditional" insomuch as they stick with whatever they, subjectively, consider to be "best". Which oftentimes has a lot to do what's going on in society. (SJs are typically very good at, if not necessarily being normal, then being very much in touch with what is normal and what isn't.) But what's going on in society might not necessarily be conservative. I imagine, for example, that groups of Black Lives Matter protesters and other social justice oriented youth are full to the brim with SJs. I work at a social justice oriented office and you'd be surprised by the number of fellow SJs I've met here.

SJs may pick and choose what modern-day "traditions" they adhere to. They may completely rebel against the "traditions" they grew up with, in favor of new "traditions" that they find later in life. Regardless, whatever structures and priorities they focus on in their lives, they are consistent with, and they take very seriously.

/ I digress, because you weren't talking about "traditional" -- but it also applies to "conservative", in that our consistency is something that tends to be associated with the stereotypical conservative mindset. Feeling that change for the sake of change is excessive. That an established system is innocent until proven guilty.

This.

We really shouldn't use the word "conservative", "traditional" or even preserving for Si people. It's not about preserving anything. It's about optimality what is "best." ...although "best" implied a judging function.

Still, what an Si user has determined as "best" or optimal definitely changes even for me.

Si users can totally be rebels as they will stand by their values even if it differs from a group as they (...me*cough* -_-") take my values very seriously.

Another edit:: actually, if the lead focus is "best" then that person is probably a Je dom. However, the term best is better than traditional and all the other ones.
 
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SJs may pick and choose what modern-day "traditions" they adhere to. They may completely rebel against the "traditions" they grew up with, in favor of new "traditions" that they find later in life. Regardless, whatever structures and priorities they focus on in their lives, they are consistent with, and they take very seriously.

Your whole post is gold but this segment especially is very important!! The words used in these descriptions can be harmful for this very reason--if I had a dollar for every time an SJ mistyped themselves as something else because they aren't "traditional" in the loaded/stereotyped sense, well, I'd have enough money to fuel my phone game addiction anyway. It's almost scary how so many people interpret SJ descriptions--and thus SJs themselves--so chock full of stereotypes. Of course I'm not saying there can't be or aren't any SJs who do fit these descriptions--but that, woah, maybe if we had more actual SJs write SJ descriptions, they wouldn't be so... yucky. (My mind won't think of a different word sorry).

So I think it's important that people, especially SJs themselves, work to help the rest of the community truly understand what Si looks like. Just as other types should fight to clear up any misconceptions that are popular among their own type/functions. SJs get a really bad rep for really misunderstood reasons that creates quite a bias against them in less... ahem... educated communities. This forum is the least-biased forum I've ever been on. Other forums kind of scare me with the amount of bias they have.
 
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