I was pretty sure I have abandonment issues. I guess if I do, they aren't as bad as I thought. I dunno.
Lifetrap --------- Strength
Self-sacrifice --------- strong
Subjugation --------- strong
Vulnerablity --------- medium
Approval seeking --------- medium
Pessimism --------- medium
Abuse --------- medium
Entitlement --------- medium
Failure --------- medium
Sosial isolation --------- medium
Dependence --------- weak
Insufficient self-control --------- weak
Emotional inhibation --------- weak
Abandonment --------- weak
Defectiveness --------- weak
Unrelenting standards --------- no lifetrap
Enmeshment --------- no lifetrap
Emotional deprivation --------- no lifetrap
Punitiveness --------- no lifetrap
Wow, the ones which I think are amongst the most scary are in your top three, I dont like the whole subjugation idea, not for a moment.