That's too simplistic a view as there are many reasons why a person would like another person. Enneatype can only describe one aspect of this at best since intertype is not really an explored aspect of the enneagram theory. In general people tend to get along with those who represent the types they got a line of connection with. As a 5, I for example get along great with 8s given that we cognitively also seem to think somewhat similar e.g. favor Ne-Si and Fi-Te as our function preferences.
"I fail to see the connection between Jungian intuition and social energy unless you mean feeling energized from interacting with the external world which again makes you an extrovert, not an introvert."
*facepalm* ................. your taking these theories far too copy paste method without thinking for yourself at all. i can be both energized and de-energized by social interaction. it depends entirely whether my internal theories are able to keep up with the external stimuli. if yes, then im able to see what i gain by interacting with them and thus im making progress, if not, then ill be overwhelmed and will require a significant thinking phase after the conversation to regain my composure.
"For the love of, could you please learn to use the quote function. It's quite fantastic when trying to make sense of what I wrote and what you wrote. "
i have tried, but it seems to mess up everything so nope.
"If you can't stand to be away from extroverted stimuli, then you are most likely not a social introvert either. And I don't think instincts dictate as much that we feel as it dictates what we look out for in life and find to be important."
no, it doesnt dictate what we think but the names of each instincts were chosen for very specific reasons. as in if i become anti social, im ignoring my primary instinct and depending too much on sx, which is visible in me being simply too intense for others to bear and then they are all horrified of me. and they hate how im ignorant of social rules/norms and all that other bullshit.
"I can't say I lust after people's personalities or their type. I lust after
persons. You reduce individuals too much and take away their individual qualities. We are not our types. "
if you analyze people enough, you will realize everything can be explained by psychology, that there simply are no magical personas, we are just mere attributes, live with it.
"We are not our types. Types describe us. MBTI type classifies people differently to how Jung classified people. I think like a Jungian Fi dominant with N as auxiliary. In MBTI letter code it would be INFP. I however score INTP on tests and I relate to the INTP profile. It makes me an INTP. I'm fully neither of these things. My being is too complex to be reduced into a 4 letter code. They can describe parts of me but they cannot describe the totality of me. I understand the system well enough to simply manipulate the 4 letter code so people can read whatever they want from it depending on how they understand the system. I know who I am and what type I am and how I operate. Having you telling me that I lack more personal insight into myself than you do is thus quite hilarious and ironic."
i think your reducing mbti into some ridiculous thing, into the level of astrology. and with enneagram and instincts combined to mbti, together they CAN explain the totality of you.
"9s don't fear negativity
per se."
i do, maybe thats just 7w6 in my triad.
"I knew an ENTJ who was so/sx and he was nothing like that when healthy. You ascribe traits unrelated to the instincts."
all entjs ive came across have been over smiling people, who smile even more than i, so i wonder if youve even typed that person correctly.
"Feelings of worthlessness are not feeling I'd attribute to enneatype 9 but those who identify with their superego (1, 2 and 6) and to a degree, 4, since the 4 fear is of having no personal value or significance. In other words, they are worthless."
perhaps its nines disintegration to 6, but ive seen nines with ridiculous problems with self worth, to the level of mentioning it to people that they are worthless, sigh <.< and i do think ego enneas too tend to have kind of low self worth valuation.
"So you admit being a feeler. Good job."
theres a difference, i know im a feeler. i have even noticed, that my thinking too is inspiration based, i pretty much require that feeling of inspiration for anything to happen.
"You aren't coming off as sensitive. You are simply coming off as somewhat arrogant, having a simplistic point of view of theory and people as a whole with an overall attitude towards self-pity."
i said insenstivie, and i think you too seem to have a simplistic understanding of psychology. especially your tendency to ascribe too much onto single attributes of psychology which should be explained by other attributes or outright ignoring it thinking humans are somehow magically un-understandable.