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Happy Dancer
- Joined
- Feb 9, 2010
- Messages
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- MBTI Type
- INTJ
- Enneagram
- 953
- Instinctual Variant
- sp/so
Generally speaking, women are attracted to intelligent men, and, generally speaking, NTs typify "masculine intelligence".
What seems more preferential is whether a woman likes an introverted or an extroverted man.
I, for one, have always been attracted to introverted men with thinking preferences.
I should actually modify that statement, I actually tend to be attracted to highly introverted men. Don't exactly know why.
As steph mentioned, something about a quiet intelligence is attractive to me.
I think I was 23 when I asserted the fact that I am absolutely NOT attracted to charismatic men, I enjoy them as friends, and it is fun to flirt with them, but I am never romantically attracted to them.
And, no, for I've heard extroverts and ENFPs in particular being accused of this, my lack of attraction to extroverted charismatic men has nothing AT ALL to do with "sharing the spot light"
They're just not my cup of tea.
I've always liked men who were/are reserved, who lack the desire to posture and or prove themselves to random people.
There's simply nothing more sexy than a quiet confidence, nothing...
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Yes, what SS said.![]()
Either way, I get along well with N's. I've always felt that my friendships in real life with N's have been my closest and deepest.
That includes both NF and NT.
Thank you, both, for the feedback.
Now, with that out of the way ...
*whirls SS around the dance floor*
*whirls Steph around the dance floor*