Hmmm. I had not said all INTJs were like this. I said many. More so than any other type except probably INTPs. I too, can give examples of INTJs who are not like what I had described.This, to me, is ridiculous. I never really cared about being the smartest. In fact, I expended a lot of effort in school trying NOT to stand out for it. The truth is that we appear intelligent because our society judges intelligence in a way that benefits our natural thought processes. I basically didn't give a shit about anything I learned in school until I went to college where I got a "useless" humanities degree.
The fact of the matter is that while there are different kinds of intelligences, certain kinds of intelligence help you "get ahead" in the world more than others.
Yes, there are multiple intelligences.
But there's also a reason why NT intelligence is thought of as the most general form of "intelligence".
Sim, while I know your point, I would also be wary of slipping too far into relativism with regards to multiple intelligences.
Yes, there are multiple intelligences.
But there's also a reason why NT intelligence is thought of as the most general form of "intelligence".
Honest question, what is that reason? I can't come up with a good answer myself.
The reason is just that that's how most people are taught to think. NTs score higher on standardized tests (which test only NT intelligence) and are told from a young age that they're special because of it.
Other types are told that they're less intelligent because they don't score as well on tests of NT intelligence, so their cognitive gifts are marginalized. It's assumed (largely by NTJs, who usually design and control the testing methods) that other intelligences are less valid because they can't be measured empirically and quantified on a numerical scale.
Typical Te: If you can't stick it in a test tube and quantify it, it's not real.
The only real reason is that we've been taught to think that way...which the INTJs should know better than anyone is never a good enough reason to believe something.
Unless Zarathustra's an alternate profile of yours, and I think a few posters on this board would be more than a little upset if that were the case, I'd prefer if you let him answer the question first. He's owed that level of respect, right?
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I don't think my answer prevents him from sharing his own take on the issue. It's not as if my post's earlier number in the thread affects its validity.
Yeah it does. It's saying that you think your ideas on the subject are more important than even the person whom the question was asked of. That's a little obnoxious, wouldn't you say?![]()
Well, no. If this were a live conversation between several people I'd see your point--you ask him a question and I cut him off to answer it myself, sure that'd be obnoxious. This, however, is an online situation where numerous people can answer the same question simultaneously without interrupting each other.
Since this is an internet forum, though, and Z isn't even logged in right now, there's no way that my answer in any way prevents him from sharing his thoughts once he logs in again and sees the thread.
Given that we don't have to deal with the "only one person can talk at a time" problem generated by live conversation, no, I don't see how making my own response to your question in any way inhibits Z's ability to respond when he wants to.
By posting your question in a public thread on a public forum where you know numerous people are free to respond to it, you open yourself up to responses from numerous people. If you only wanted Z's answer here, why didn't you PM him your question instead of posting it publicly?
Why not write it down elsewhere, and afford Z the courtesy of replying to his own question first? You might not think it's rude, but I promise you, others do. I find it interesting that you see affording everyone their turn in a conversation something that you have to "deal with" IRL.
Maybe I asked him in the public forum, because I wanted everyone to have the opportunity to read and comment on his response? I didn't understand what he meant, and maybe some other people didn't either. That's why it's called contributing to a thread - trying to improve it by your being there.
The thing is, the thread isn't automatically better just by your being there. You're not that special; no one is. Coming into a thread and making it all about what you want is the height of selfishness and arrogance. I know this, because I've been repeatedly guilty of this since I joined up on this board.
Adults don't just ask questions to get attention, you know. That's what six-year-olds do.