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Video: ENFP Meltdowns

highlander

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  • ENFP and INTJ talk about how the ENFP experiences meltdowns and how they get through it together
 

Qlip

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Ugh, this smacks of typist over classification. The relationship seems a bit patronizing to me, I don't know I might just be really tired of the idea of ENFPs as kept pets.
 

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Ugh, this smacks of typist over classification. The relationship seems a bit patronizing to me, I don't know I might just be really tired of the idea of ENFPs as kept pets.

 

chubber

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She started to get frustrated? => Te grinding against Fi.
 

Doctor Cringelord

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Ugh, this smacks of typist over classification. The relationship seems a bit patronizing to me, I don't know I might just be really tired of the idea of ENFPs as kept pets.

Yeah, they do seem to be portrayed as the manic pixie dream boys and girls of MBTI
 

JocktheMotie

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Ugh, this smacks of typist over classification. The relationship seems a bit patronizing to me, I don't know I might just be really tired of the idea of ENFPs as kept pets.

I'd rather eat my own shit than watch a 14 minute ENFP/INTJ video, but I will say the dynamic of mutual patronization that seems to exist for the type relationship has always seemed idiotic.
 

Starry

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I'd rather eat my own shit than watch a 14 minute ENFP/INTJ video...

Same. I struggled through about half of this and while I didn't get a full understanding of what this chick attributed her meltdown to...(what? like she wanted so badly to be *helpful* with the map?)...I immediately recognized it as a bullshit excuse.

Positive Outlook ENFPs feel entitled to everything going their way. She's probably sophisticated enough to not throw these toddler tantrums in situations that directly involve friends, co-workers, people in the community... But ENFPs that haven't come to terms with their entitlement issues often snap in precisely these kinds of situations (and then blame it on their "goodness" yes.)
 

chubber

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Same. I struggled through about half of this and while I didn't get a full understanding of what this chick attributed her meltdown to...(what? like she wanted so badly to be *helpful* with the map?)...I immediately recognized it as a bullshit excuse.

Positive Outlook ENFPs feel entitled to everything going their way. She's probably sophisticated enough to not throw these toddler tantrums in situations that directly involve friends, co-workers, people in the community... But ENFPs that haven't come to terms with their entitlement issues often snap in precisely these kinds of situations (and then blame it on their "goodness" yes.)

Hopefully with no one barfing in anyone's bag.
 

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Closed after a minute. Girl creeps me out too much.
 

Ovid

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Ugh, this smacks of typist over classification. The relationship seems a bit patronizing to me, I don't know I might just be really tired of the idea of ENFPs as kept pets.

I think you nailed it.
 
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