:hi: Hellooo! Okay, I'm not an ESTP, (borderline ESTP/ISTP) however you're looking at a gay man. What's it like to be an STP and gay? I don't reveal myself through telling people. I let them find out instead. "Actions speak louder than words" is probably a good cliche to use. I find it to be much easier. If they ask, I say "yes and, your point?" they act as if I were offended by their question. Naww, not really, I just find it funny that they ask to make sure. I wouldn't call myself a "bad-boy" though, I just don't care what anyone thinks about me. I am who I am. I could go on about it.
Also if you want to think of a gay xSTP, watch Queer as Folk, think of Brian Kinney. I am typing him as an xSTP right off the bat.
TANGENT: I ALMOST got into a relationship with this one guy, but it didn't even start. He is a complete douche. I have to deal with him at work, well not really. I hate to say this, but I think I changed him to be that way. He kinda came back at one of my co-workers with a snarky remark. We're in the same department so I'm bound to see him. I want to punch the guy sometimes.
There's also this girl who I'm interested in. She's an INxP. I don't know, there's something that clicks. We don't see each other often, however.