Tamske
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Or even worse: when they try to make you hold their babies. I hate that with a passion. I fear doing something wrong, and of course the baby will vomit or shit or start crying when in my hands... and if you don't, people look at you with that weird look... like if you're not fully human. You know, REAL humans are all overjoyed to put hands on bellies and hold babies!Urgh god, I'm terrified of that moment. It's really alien to me, and I'm sure a few other NT females. When people try to get me to feel their bellies, I get the heebie jeebies.
When I'll be showing, I hope people won't put their hands on my belly without asking... with exception of husband, of course, who's always allowed to touch me
I've never had that. On the contrary... Having a big belly when you're pregnant is as natural as crying when you're sad. I was grossed out at some celebrities going on and on about that belly and feeling as if there's a parasite growing inside you, eating out your life and your beauty... You have created a human being!!! What if I'm fatter afterwards? What if I don't look like a young woman any more? Who cares about that??? I'm almost thirty and I don't have the desire to look as if I'm twenty. I'm going to be a mother and looking like a mother is part if it.The whole " beach ball" belly thing also grosses the hell out of me.
Yesterday husband's sister, her husband and their little child came to visit. The sister never played with dolls, was a "boy" in anything and everything, probably as NT as I am or more, and she's a great mom. I'm a bit less scared now.