BlakeUndefined
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- Nov 28, 2014
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- INFJ
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Hello.
So I created a thread on PerC titled,"Don't hate me for this."
Basically My iNFP friend kept proclaiming on how special he was and everyone else was below him etc and I really can't seem to talk to him about anything else. So I told him that He was ordinary, just like everyone else. I mean We're all like trees, In the big picture, we're all the same. He didn't react well to it, but everything's settled between us.
And my question was, As a friend, How would i get him to transcend his current state? How can I provoke him to do that? I am rather worried for him.
Now, most of the INFPs on PerC, took this personally and started going on about how they would personally feel and react if someone told this to them. Most of them were missing the point, reacting immaturely instead of giving constructive advice(I-could-feel-their-anger). I don't need to know how they'll react. I want to know why they'd react such and how I can get them to see it in a different way, because honestly, If this goes on, I don't think ill be able to help my friend move on in life.
So please, don't take this personally.
So I created a thread on PerC titled,"Don't hate me for this."
Basically My iNFP friend kept proclaiming on how special he was and everyone else was below him etc and I really can't seem to talk to him about anything else. So I told him that He was ordinary, just like everyone else. I mean We're all like trees, In the big picture, we're all the same. He didn't react well to it, but everything's settled between us.
And my question was, As a friend, How would i get him to transcend his current state? How can I provoke him to do that? I am rather worried for him.
Now, most of the INFPs on PerC, took this personally and started going on about how they would personally feel and react if someone told this to them. Most of them were missing the point, reacting immaturely instead of giving constructive advice(I-could-feel-their-anger). I don't need to know how they'll react. I want to know why they'd react such and how I can get them to see it in a different way, because honestly, If this goes on, I don't think ill be able to help my friend move on in life.
So please, don't take this personally.