I have been smitten by an ENFJ woman at work. I was assigned to her for a temp assignment (I'm temping to get a film studio job) and she just totally fascinated me, as I think she is the first ENFJ woman I have met.
She asked me a question, "Are those Docs you're wearing?" And when I said yes, she giggled and then left the room. Later on when she was putting some post-its on some cabinets I had to box up for her, she kept her back to the cabinet and was putting them on next to her, which seemed unusual.
Anyway, I had work there a couple of days later and I saw her frequently, and she was very friendly. One time, when trying to enter the building, she rushed to open it for me. Am I wrong, or was there some attraction on her part there?
I saw her a couple of times and she was very friendly. To make a long story short, I wanted to ask her out, but this occured before I started night school this semester, which I am doing three nights a week and it seriously limits my time for a personal life. I was working at a different location for the last month and saw her again last week, but she was definitely cooler (no smile). The classes I am taking are really boring and definitely not putting me in my best light, so what should I do?
Am I now out of the picture, because I didn't sweep her off her feet when I had the chance (I really didn't because before I could be sure of what was going on, night school started), or when I get some free time again, is there a chance?
I would definitely like to hear from some ENFJ women.
BTW, I am in my late 30s, though I look pretty good, and she is in her mid-late 20s (26-27ish).