I kinda tend to think people who are seriously unhappy and don't do a THING to change thier life's are losers.
I need to clarify this statement, if you are depressed, it can be hard, but small steps lead to bigger steps....but I really don't mean depressed people.
I once knew a women, who would get drunk every day of the week, moan and bitch about how terrible her life was, and how lonely she was, but never lifted a finger to change all of it, and before anyone says how insensitive I am for that comment, I did try to help, but she was using me as a emotional crutch. God knows other people tried too. She just kept harping on about her glory days when she owned a business and had a boyfriend twenty years ago. I wanted to slap her and say just get on with it! Build a new life. I hope I never get like that.