-can be many different people at different times
-feels the need to be "right" all the time
Just look for an ENFP and the friend next to them should be an INFJ.
May have a love affair with a particular color or number.
Definitely. Fe makes me adjust myself to a certain environment.
May have a love affair with a particular color or number. Nervous habits may manifest, as they are not always aware of what their hands/feet are doing. Doesn't always make sense when they speak about a topic they aren't familiar with.
Its funny. Because we're so much about honesty, and yet we have so many different facets of ourselves. Even some we've never discovered. Depending on what environment we're in, who we're with, and what we're doing, it is subject to change. Not to mention how we feel at that point. We're not always quick to accept change I think, and we adapt slow when confronting new scenarios, but once we learn how, we're able to do it much quicker. In this instance, I would say that the INFJ is a survivor of sorts. Very adaptable.
Even when we're alone, depending on how we feel, what we're doing, and what is the focus of our minds at that particular point, there truly is no true self to us, in the sense that its many selves that make up the whole.
Same thing with asking them to change or stop doing something. She would usually flake out once the people were in front of her. Would also get angry at people for acting a certain way or doing something but couldn't muster up the courage to tell them to stop.
I just look for a quiet/unobtrusive person, "NF-like" verbal behavior, and "THE GAZE"
This list isn't exhaustive, but it's a start.
-Often sort of intense, psychic eyes. Where INFP's look like fairies sometimes, INFJ's can look like angels.
-Walk like a ghost, legs first (whatever that means to you, haha, I'll leave it at that).
-Nose can be a bit upturned (not always, but very often).
-Usually quite thin.
-Usually dress... hard to explain. An element of reserve there, but subtle drama, too. They are very good at mixing black with other colors, but not a lot of color usually.
-When they smile for pictures sometimes their eyes remain relaxed, which can make their smile look phony (even though it probably isn't fake).
-They can seem "off-limits" from afar, but once you get to know them, you won't find a better or more caring listener.
-Dry sense of humor, sometimes making fun of others without them being aware of it, subtle puns not uncommon.
-They often have an air of sophistication, even if they don't know this about themselves.
-They would be horrified if they accidentally farted in front of you.
i love mixing black with stuff, my favourite colour
If I had to go by what I sometimes catch myself doing or what others tell me..
-kind, intense eyes
-genuine smile
-quick wit
-devoted to sarcasm
-knowledgeable
-good listener
-can appear distant or cold
-vague
-softspoken
-quiet
-sharp memory
-when I walk I have a sense of purpose (relaxed but strong gait)
-babyfaced (not relevant, but..)
-I speak as if I'm older than I am
-talented in the Arts
-don't mind sitting alone (with Ipod with me)
-huge music/film fan (I speak with much enthusiasm about them)
-very observant
-when angered I surprise people with blatant rage (not afraid to fight if I need to)
-can be many different people at different times
-feels the need to be "right" all the time