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Love Languages Quiz (LonerWolf)

Metis

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Love Languages Quiz - Which One Do You Speak? ⋆ LonerWolf

They nailed it. The questions are really good.



Acts of Service

Your primary love language is Acts of Service.

For you, actions speak louder than words.

In relationships, you thrive the most when your loved one does special things for you often, and sometimes unexpectedly. To you, words and gifts come easily but acts of service take planning, time, effort and energy and show that someone cares.

You feel the most loved when someone does a small gesture for you like washing the dishes, cooking, mowing the lawn or cleaning the house. These simple actions communicate to you that your loved one is thinking about you and paying attention to your needs.

Likely, you do unexpected things for your loved ones because this is how you like to receive love the most. Remember that your partner's love language is not necessarily the same as yours!

You feel the most upset when someone breaks a promise or is lazy because it creates extra work for you, and it communicates that a person doesn't care about your feelings.

The words that make you the happiest are: "Let me take care of that for you."​

5 Ways to Include Acts of Service in Your Life

Let your loved ones know about your love language so that they know how to love you best!
Listen carefully to a person's pet peeves and carry them out, e.g. removing hair from the shower drain, cleaning the garage or weeding the garden. Both you and your loved ones will benefit from such thoughtful acts.
Offer to give someone you love a massage after hard days work. It feels good to express your love!
Spend the day helping your loved one complete a project they've been looking forward to finish.
Take care of a loved one's chores for the day while they can sit and relax.​
 

LittleCat

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Got acts of service as well. I feel divided between this and quality time.
 

Earl Grey

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Acts of Service.
 

Luminous

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Quality Time
 

Maou

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Acts of service.

But I didnt like the questions. Too cliche.
 

Hellena Handbasket

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Physical touch, which is pretty spot on but yeah the test was a bit cliche. I've seen better and more in depth ones.
 

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Acts of Service
 

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Words of Affirmation
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Your primary love language is Word of Affirmation.

For you, the right words at the right moment can lift your spirit and fill you with love.

Words matter to you and you thrive the most when your loved ones regularly express to you how important you are to them.

You feel the most appreciated when your loved ones openly communicate with you how beautiful, kind, talented, strong, or capable you are. You love it when your loved ones acknowledge when you've done something special for them by saying "thank you" or "I really appreciate that."

Likely, you often express your love through compliments and acknowledgments because that's the way you want to be loved.

A compliment when you're feeling doubtful can boost your self-confidence immensely.

Let your loved ones know about this new knowledge so you can deepen your intimacy and
 

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Your primary love language is Physical Touch
 

Morpeko

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Physical Touch

Your primary love language is Physical Touch

To you, nothing speaks deeper than physical intimacy.

In relationships, you thrive the most when you receive a lot of physical affection. If you're in a relationship, this extends far beyond the bedroom (although that's also important to you). You feel the most secure and loved when your partner gives you cuddles, surprise kisses, and gentle caresses.

Public displays of physical affection like holding hands, pats on the back and hugs communicate that a person cares about you.

It is also likely that physical displays of affection are how you show your love to your loved ones in relationships. Both physical presence and emotional accessibility are vital to you in showing your affection.

A gentle embrace during hard times is just the right encouragement you need to improve any day.

5 Ways to Include Physical Touch in Your Life

Let your loved ones know about your love language so that they know how to love you best!
When you're lying in bed or on the couch, gently caress different areas of your loved one's body (or your body). This is soothing and will instil feelings of well-being within you.
Kiss and hug someone you love before leaving your house for work. It will brighten your day.
To feel more connected to someone at work, briefly touch them on the shoulder or hand.
Ask your loved one for a neck or body massage. Alternatively, you could try massaging yourself!
 

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Quality Time​


Your primary love language is Quality Time.
For you, nothing says "I love you" more than your loved one's undivided attention.
It's easy to take those you love for granted each day. Therefore, you feel the most loved and appreciated when someone sets aside time to spend exclusively in your company.
You know more than anyone that being in the company of someone physically doesn't mean they are actually enjoying the intimacy of your company. The people in your life might be on the phone or have their mind elsewhere without giving you the attention that makes you feel like you matter to them.
Quality time also means sharing quality conversation and enjoying quality activities with those you love. Distractions, postponed commitments, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful.
Likely, when you're in the company of your loved ones you give them your undivided attention because that's the way you want to be loved.
5 Ways to Include Quality Time in Your Life
  1. Let your loved ones know about your love language so that they know how to love you best!
  2. Going on a walk with your partner to the beach or park after work is an easy way to replenish your emotional tank.
  3. Turn off the TV or phone and spend 20 minutes talking with someone you love.
  4. Make more moments of "togetherness" by asking about and sharing experiences, thoughts, feelings, and desires.
  5. When you are speaking to one another person, listen carefully without interrupting and maintain fixed eye contact. A person who respects you will return the gesture.
 
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