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The Alpha/Beta Personality Quiz

S16M4

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Red:

60% High Alpha

14% Low Beta



You are exceedingly dominant, in fact, downright bossy. Since your controlling Alpha is so strong, you need to soften it by developing your Beta side and allowing yourself to feel vulnerable. Your best fit is a partner with High Beta qualities—but he or she should also have at least a Mid dose of Alpha, or else you will roll over him/her. Look for a partner who falls in Blue or Lime Green. If your partner is too much like you (High Alpha- Low Beta), the two of you will end up in endless arguments and power struggles.
 

Yama

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Messages
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MBTI Type
ESFJ
Enneagram
6w7
Instinctual Variant
so/sx
You are Pink:
8% Low Alpha
66% High Beta

You are very accommodating and sensitive, and you seek security and stability in your relationships. You do not like to rock the boat and tend to avoid competition and confrontation. Your strength is in your emotional accessibility; you seek deep relationships and are able to compromise, but you lack spunk and confidence. Your most complementary partnerships are with the stronger Alphas in the color chart—but beware of becoming codependent with someone who dominates you.
 

Lady Lazarus

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Messages
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MBTI Type
INFJ
Enneagram
9w8
Instinctual Variant
sx/sp
You are Green:
60% High Alpha
52% High Beta

You are a “true” hybrid: high in Alpha and Beta. You are very self-confident and ambitious, and you will lead as well as compromise in a relationship. This is an unusual profile since most of us are not high in both qualities. You will match with many people, but be careful about a partner who is in the {Pale Beige} box; that relationship will be codependent since you will do all the work. Your ideal match is with someone like yourself or someone adjacent to you (Green, Blue, Yellow, Lime Green).
 

Bush

cute lil war dog
Joined
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Messages
5,182
Enneagram
3w4
Instinctual Variant
sp/so
62% High Alpha
52% High Beta
The Alpha Woman Meets Her Match

You are a “true” hybrid: high in Alpha and Beta. You are very self-confident and ambitious, and you will lead as well as compromise in a relationship. This is an unusual profile since most of us are not high in both qualities. You will match with many people, but be careful about a partner who is in the {Pale Beige} box; that relationship will be codependent since you will do all the work. Your ideal match is with someone like yourself or someone adjacent to you (Green, Blue, Yellow, Lime Green).

Shit, gotta spin 38% more plates
 

Verona

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Joined
May 9, 2016
Messages
590
MBTI Type
INFP
Enneagram
6w5
Instinctual Variant
sp
You are Blue:

28% Mid Alpha
72% High Beta

You are a good mixture of Alpha and Beta; you probably get along with everyone and are well liked. You are confident without being overbearing. As a cooperative person, you may prefer letting your partner take the lead—but you are not a pushover. You will partner well with a strong Alpha (Green, Yellow), since you can hold your own. However, you will be comfortable in a stable, secure relationship with another person like yourself, in Blue.
 

Merced

Talk to me.
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Messages
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MBTI Type
ESTJ
Enneagram
28?
Instinctual Variant
so/sp
You are Green:
78% High Alpha
74% High Beta

Maybe I've read a few too many fanfictions, but I would absolutely love a detailed explanation of this concept. It's hard to scroll through AO3 without stumbling across at least one A/B/O fic. While sometimes I read them, I don't 100% get it. Is there a place I could do that?

OH MY GOD I JUST FIGURED IT OUT.
 

ChocolateMoose123

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Me and my ENFP took this separately and also for the other.

I took this and got Lime Green.

He got Pink.

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He took it for me and "I" got Red.

I took it for him and "he" got Pink.

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I saw the answers he chose for me and it was interesting. It was accurate. The questions that separated our answers where mainly about internal/external processes. He sees me as very decisive/determined. Inside, I'm considering so much. Ultimately, I have to go somewhere.

I would put myself at a yellow. Lime green isn't accurate. The ENFP said he doesn't agree with Red for me, as I'm not bossy or domineering.

Pretty interesting quiz.
 

CitizenErased

Clean Slate
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Jan 5, 2016
Messages
552
You are Yellow:
54% High Alpha
38% Mid Beta
The Alpha Woman Meets Her Match

You are High Alpha and Mid Beta, which means that you are dominant in most relationships but have the capacity to collaborate and compromise. However, you have to guard against imposing your strong will and overpowering people. You will match up well with a partner who has a strong Mid to High Beta profile and will allow your Alpha to lead. Your best match is with someone more laid-back than you, who will help you take the edge off when necessary (Blue or Pink).

I don't know. Truth is I always ask my partners what they want to do and try to keep the amount of decisions in a relationship as balanced as possible. I tend to be quiet (all the guys I've been with are quite extroverted, including one puke-anything-that-comes-to-mind ESFP)... but for some reason they all end up asking me for input all the time. I'm a hot-tempered person, but I never got angry with my boyfriends (though they saw me getting mad at other people, maybe I frightened them?)
 

Virtual ghost

Complex paradigm
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Jun 6, 2008
Messages
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Correct.


You are Yellow:


60% High Alpha

38% Mid Beta


You are High Alpha and Mid Beta, which means that you are dominant in most relationships but have the capacity to collaborate and compromise. However, you have to guard against imposing your strong will and overpowering people. You will match up well with a partner who has a strong Mid to High Beta profile and will allow your Alpha to lead. Your best match is with someone more laid-back than you, who will help you take the edge off when necessary (Blue or Pink).
 

Cloudpatrol

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Arctic Hysteria

an abyss of Nothingness
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Messages
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MBTI Type
IxFP
Enneagram
4w5
Instinctual Variant
sp/sx
You are Blue:

40% Mid Alpha
74% High Beta

The Alpha Woman Meets Her Match

You are a good mixture of Alpha and Beta; you probably get along with everyone and are well liked. You are confident without being overbearing. As a cooperative person, you may prefer letting your partner take the lead—but you are not a pushover. You will partner well with a strong Alpha (Green, Yellow), since you can hold your own. However, you will be comfortable in a stable, secure relationship with another person like yourself, in Blue.
 

Empyrean

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You are Yellow:
76% High Alpha
50% Mid Beta

You are High Alpha and Mid Beta, which means that you are dominant in most relationships but have the capacity to collaborate and compromise. However, you have to guard against imposing your strong will and overpowering people. You will match up well with a partner who has a strong Mid to High Beta profile and will allow your Alpha to lead. Your best match is with someone more laid-back than you, who will help you take the edge off when necessary (Blue or Pink).

Although I have suspicions I actually fit the 'Green' profile better in reality. Who knows?
 

ZNP-TBA

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Messages
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MBTI Type
ENTP
Enneagram
7w8
Instinctual Variant
sx
You are Yellow:
64% High Alpha
26% Mid Beta
The Alpha Woman Meets Her Match

You are High Alpha and Mid Beta, which means that you are dominant in most relationships but have the capacity to collaborate and compromise. However, you have to guard against imposing your strong will and overpowering people. You will match up well with a partner who has a strong Mid to High Beta profile and will allow your Alpha to lead. Your best match is with someone more laid-back than you, who will help you take the edge off when necessary (Blue or Pink).
 
Joined
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Messages
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MBTI Type
*NF*
Enneagram
852
Instinctual Variant
sx/sp
54% High Alpha
52% High Beta
The Alpha Woman Meets Her Match

You are a “true” hybrid: high in Alpha and Beta. You are very self-confident and ambitious, and you will lead as well as compromise in a relationship. This is an unusual profile since most of us are not high in both qualities. You will match with many people, but be careful about a partner who is in the {Pale Beige} box; that relationship will be codependent since you will do all the work. Your ideal match is with someone like yourself or someone adjacent to you (Green, Blue, Yellow, Lime Green).

:gleam: The question I found the most funny was : "Do you enjoy having power" (something like that) . In my humble opinion, I only do enjoy power over myself.
But one of my enneagram teachers told me power can be very subtle... :newwink:


Red and Pink partners aren't for me. I know it too well.
Blue and green are what I clearly prefer. As for yellow that depends on "how dominant" they are and how they communicate with me.

That mainly depends on their values and not only on their attitudes of course.
 

Pionart

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MBTI Type
NiFe
54% High Alpha
52% High Beta
The Alpha Woman Meets Her Match

You are a “true” hybrid: high in Alpha and Beta. You are very self-confident and ambitious, and you will lead as well as compromise in a relationship. This is an unusual profile since most of us are not high in both qualities. You will match with many people, but be careful about a partner who is in the {Pale Beige} box; that relationship will be codependent since you will do all the work. Your ideal match is with someone like yourself or someone adjacent to you (Green, Blue, Yellow, Lime Green).

:gleam: The question I found the most funny was : "Do you enjoy having power" (something like that) . In my humble opinion, I only do enjoy power over myself.
But one of my enneagram teachers told me power can be very subtle... :newwink:


Red and Pink partners aren't for me. I know it too well.
Blue and green are what I clearly prefer. As for yellow that depends on "how dominant" they are and how they communicate with me.

That mainly depends on their values and not only on their attitudes of course.

Well, I'm a pink, go away!!!

:p

:hug:
 

Kanra Jest

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4w3
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sx/so
You are Blue:

46% Mid Alpha

58% High Beta

You are a good mixture of Alpha and Beta; you probably get along with everyone and are well liked. You are confident without being overbearing. As a cooperative person, you may prefer letting your partner take the lead—but you are not a pushover. You will partner well with a strong Alpha (Green, Yellow), since you can hold your own. However, you will be comfortable in a stable, secure relationship with another person like yourself, in Blue.
 
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Well, I'm a pink, go away!!!

:p

:hug:

:hug:

Well ... we could still shake hands but .....I'll just decide not to look at your pants (I don't like pink underwears they remind me of the doll Barbie) :smile:
 

Poki

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MBTI Type
STP
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sx/so
You are Pale Beige:
14% Low Alpha
24% Low Beta
The Alpha Woman Meets Her Match

You are unsure of yourself and too conforming. Passive, anxious, and excessively self-critical, you are sometimes afraid of your own shadow and worry way too much about what people think. You tend to misjudge others’ motives and intentions. Before you get into a relationship, take stock and think about how to develop more self-confidence. Otherwise, you will be taken advantage of and possibly even mistreated. Be careful—you are vulnerable!

i dont play alpha beta games. most people actually pin me as Alpha, but not the typical Alpha. i am independent to a fault, but my Alpha causes people to migrate towards me and follow me. i have been called a King MANY times as well as a leader and i dont get it. i just walk, people tend to follow me though.
 
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i dont play alpha beta games. most people actually pin me as Alpha, but not the typical Alpha. i am independent to a fault, but my Alpha causes people to migrate towards me and follow me. i have been called a King MANY times as well as a leader and i dont get it. i just walk, people tend to follow me though.

I know what you mean... As I'm concerned, I'll never follow a "typical alpha", male or woman I rarely trust them. You probably have your own values and are without a doubt more humble
than most "typical leaders".

i just walk, people tend to follow me though
A real leader doesn't need to talk. A look, a gesture and the confidence in his/her eyes are enough for people to have a good example to follow, and beyond everything to be inspired by.

follow me.jpg
 

NAPSTABLOOK22

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Nov 25, 2016
Messages
167
MBTI Type
FUCK
Enneagram
666
34% Mid Alpha
38% Mid Beta

You are a hybrid of Mid Alpha and Mid Beta. You are easygoing, and with your good relationship skills, you can create an equal, compatible relationship with someone like yourself (Lime Green). Since both of you tend to shy away from confrontation, this safe, secure partnership would have only a low degree of conflict. However, because you are a hybrid, you have several more challenging options (Red, Yellow, Green). With any of these matches, you would be the nurturer and your partner would be the leader. You might have to develop a little more Alpha so that you can occasionally push back.
 
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