I am an ESFP, 7w6, new to this forum and loving it.
I have a close INFJ female friend whom I have been close to for four years already. Recently, she came back from abroad and is acting really opinionated and self-centered. When I hang out with her, she always talks about how much she hates her country( due to the values being different from hers) and how much she hates her race and wishes to be another race whom she thinks is good-looking. Its kind of getting on my nerves. She's Asian and talks about how asian girls are ugly as compared to white girls, hating on asian values and ofc asian guys being boring etc. I agree with some of her points but don't think there is a need to talk about it ALL THE TIME.
I don't have many CLOSE friends like her so I'm trying to preserve the friendship.....but its really annoying how much negativity there is. Why does she behave like this (as in what functions make her behave this way) and how should i respond???
I have a close INFJ female friend whom I have been close to for four years already. Recently, she came back from abroad and is acting really opinionated and self-centered. When I hang out with her, she always talks about how much she hates her country( due to the values being different from hers) and how much she hates her race and wishes to be another race whom she thinks is good-looking. Its kind of getting on my nerves. She's Asian and talks about how asian girls are ugly as compared to white girls, hating on asian values and ofc asian guys being boring etc. I agree with some of her points but don't think there is a need to talk about it ALL THE TIME.
I don't have many CLOSE friends like her so I'm trying to preserve the friendship.....but its really annoying how much negativity there is. Why does she behave like this (as in what functions make her behave this way) and how should i respond???