Peter Deadpan
phallus impudicus
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I need to know this to better understand the type, and possibly to better understand all of the types: How does self-forgetting manifest in 9s respective to primary instinct?
Specifically, I am trying to understand sexual 9s. It seems to me that they would be self-forgetting and absent in the realm of attraction/repulsion, particularly with their mate if they have one. However, this seems to be in contrast to how I have understood the sexual instinct, so I am trying to understand how self-forgetting pairs with the instincts. Does it weirdly cancel them out??? Like... a self-preservation 9 would be "asleep" to issues pertaining to self-preservation, so they oftentimes have issues with overeating, alcoholism, or physical laziness.
Conversely to my original question, sexual 9s are prone to triangulation, which is still a move toward satisfying sx-needs, which seems to again contradict the self-forgetting/absent nature of 9s.
Would this make sexual 9s the least Sx-y of the 9s because they are asleep to it??? I cannot comprehend how that could be the case over a sexual-blind 9. I do think I understand the merging/absorbing quality of sexual 9s in romantic relationships, but overall, the pieces as a whole aren't fitting together yet.
What am I missing here?
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I am exhausted and I hope that all made sense.
Specifically, I am trying to understand sexual 9s. It seems to me that they would be self-forgetting and absent in the realm of attraction/repulsion, particularly with their mate if they have one. However, this seems to be in contrast to how I have understood the sexual instinct, so I am trying to understand how self-forgetting pairs with the instincts. Does it weirdly cancel them out??? Like... a self-preservation 9 would be "asleep" to issues pertaining to self-preservation, so they oftentimes have issues with overeating, alcoholism, or physical laziness.
Conversely to my original question, sexual 9s are prone to triangulation, which is still a move toward satisfying sx-needs, which seems to again contradict the self-forgetting/absent nature of 9s.
Would this make sexual 9s the least Sx-y of the 9s because they are asleep to it??? I cannot comprehend how that could be the case over a sexual-blind 9. I do think I understand the merging/absorbing quality of sexual 9s in romantic relationships, but overall, the pieces as a whole aren't fitting together yet.
What am I missing here?
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I am exhausted and I hope that all made sense.