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ThatGirl
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How did you last 6 years in a situation like that? When did you figure out that he had a problem?
For the longest time I couldn't tell if he was mean or just really dumb, I didn't know if it was intentional and gave him the benifit of the doubt. I wasn't sure if he was capable of understanding the causes of his actions. I felt sorry for him and thought I could just show him there was a better way. Being naturally autonomous I wasn't that hurt by the lack of connection. This changed when he became continuious dead weight. I figured if you are going to be alone, you may as well not have to clean up after anyone else.
I still think its sad that he can't empathize with people. I still occasionally get sucked into wanting to help him help himself. But then I interact with him, and I'm back to wanting to duct tape his mouth shut and tie him to a chair in an attempt to make him stop causeing selfish based chaos... all the fucking time....
Dude that sucks about having to reset your bones. Times like that are why I believe everyone should know how to perform their own medical services, like giving yourself stitches, pulling your own wisdom teeth, and bone setting.