Mal12345
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My wife is upset because her daughter finally left home at the age of 24. She is not independent however, and never will be. She has just moved to another family home (which is a home for the disabled who can't care for themselves).
I see it a bit differently than my wife.
1. No more Borderline Personality in the house.
2. No more Narcissistic Personality in the house.
3. No more Executive Function Disorder in the house.
4. No more noise, chaos, fighting, name calling, fucking bitch this and fucking bitch that, screaming, and calling the cops or the ambulance for no reason.
5. Etc. (things I won't mention here).
Unfortunately, it also means we won't be reimbursed by the state for caring for her (picking up after her, washing her hair, etc.)
Now we are down to one income: mine. My wife says "we'll make it." Will we? I don't know. We've lost the state income plus my step-daughter's income (some of which she kept for herself, and some which she gave to us). This means we are less $2000 per month income.
The future is always full of uncertainties.
I see it a bit differently than my wife.
1. No more Borderline Personality in the house.
2. No more Narcissistic Personality in the house.
3. No more Executive Function Disorder in the house.
4. No more noise, chaos, fighting, name calling, fucking bitch this and fucking bitch that, screaming, and calling the cops or the ambulance for no reason.
5. Etc. (things I won't mention here).
Unfortunately, it also means we won't be reimbursed by the state for caring for her (picking up after her, washing her hair, etc.)
Now we are down to one income: mine. My wife says "we'll make it." Will we? I don't know. We've lost the state income plus my step-daughter's income (some of which she kept for herself, and some which she gave to us). This means we are less $2000 per month income.
The future is always full of uncertainties.