I'm going to post exactly what I posted in another topic, so I'm sorry if I seem to be veering off-topic at all here. The question was: "What do ISTJ girls think about flirtatious? What do they consider to be flirtatious?" etc.:
"When it comes to flirting I am lost... If I think I'm getting all the right signals out there it doesn't seem to change anything (I think my 'flirtatious' mode is equivalent to the extraverts' 'normal' mode, so it probably indicates nothing), but when I don't even intend to flirt my friends have told me I'm coming on too strong. I've been in situations where I've got really angry at guys who won't leave me alone when I'm evidently not interested and they keep on, claiming I'm playing hard to get.
As for guys flirting, ummm, again, I've thought guy friends have been flirting with me because we seem to bond really well, then they turn around and say "I really like [insert friend's name here], could you help me get with her?" I'm honourable, so I help them. Maybe it means I've also completely missed actual flirting cues from guys as well.
(What I consider to be signs of flirtatiousness)
Showing an interest in me, laughing at my 'jokes' (frequently unintentionally funny statements that I've made), trying to get physically close to me. Alternatively, I've had the old "Can I sleep with you/spend the night with you" line a couple of times, or they make really sexually overt statements. Do I seem easy??
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Other ISTJ females seemed to particularly agree with my first paragraph. I couldn't explain why though.