My ESFP roommate recently stepped over the line with me. Been living with him and his ESTP girlfriend for almost a year now. I've spent a LOT of my own time cleaning up after their messes. Including the two-day cleaning marathon that I did when I first moved in, done because they hadn't bothered cleaning anything for MONTHS. (When your toothbrush has adhered to the bathroom counter-top, it's time to clean, folks.)
Last week, he told me that I wasn't pulling my own in the cleaning department, and then called me a child. When I sent him a grocery list off all the crap of his that I have cleaned over the last year -- he fucking LOST IT. The next day he cornered me and yelled, "YOU INSULTED ME AND MY GIRLFRIEND!!" When I told him he insulted me by calling me a child in the email, he could only muster, "THAT'S BECAUSE YOU ARE A CHILD!" and then proceeded to call me a child over and over again.
When I got home from work that night, he had tacked a note on the bathroom door, basically telling me the bathroom fan had to be left on, because he had painted the ceiling in the bathroom and it "needed to dry." Never mind the fan in the bathroom would do nothing to help the paint dry. Never mind that the fan is LOUD AS HELL, and it rattles the wall next to my bed and wakes me up when it's on. Passive-aggression at its finest. AND I'M THE CHILD.
Needless to say, I'm moving out. I told this to the ESTP and her response?
"I accept your one-month notice."
Like hell. Nice attempt to weasel another month's rent out of me.
So, do ESFP's set me off? Well, this one does, and how. I would not be willing to base my opinions of all ESFPs off of him, though.