So I have a question for you NT folks, when you lose, how graceful are you?
I used to be a REALLY sore loser!I have an INTJ male friend, and oh boy! does he not like losing an argument. We recently played chess together, and I won all 4 times which made me very annoyed with me.
So I have a question for you NT folks, when you lose, how graceful are you?
I used to be a REALLY sore loser!
I don't mind so much if it's a close race
but I hate it when someone is just plain humiliating me.
i don't lose
I have an INTJ male friend, and oh boy! does he not like losing an argument. We recently played chess together, and I won all 4 times which made me very annoyed with me.
So I have a question for you NT folks, when you lose, how graceful are you?
Yes. I've been called a sore loser many times.
When I was a child up until about fourteen or so, I handled losses very badly. No always losing once, but definitely if I lost two or three times in a row. I would become terribly flustered and hostile, usually cursed, growled, stomped, and was likely to drive people away from playing the game. Throwing and object wasn't out of the question either.
Today, I still have a competitive streak that I try to keep subdued, because I think it's a very unhealthy thing. Losing still makes me upset, actually, but I turn it all inwards now. When I lose, I'm disapponted in myself. That's always been the problem, regardless of how I show it.