The Grand Chameleon
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I would like to make the disclaimer that I make no propaganda against homosexuals with this thread. I only seek to understand why some people would do as explained in the following:
Some straight acquaintances I personally know enjoy "mooning" one another so much so that they did it for an hour while camping in the middle of nowhere. Keep in mind these are all males. I may understand the humor in a single mooning with clever timing, but for an entire hour? They find humor in acting like such towards one another all the time. They have sent pictures of their own genitalia to one another to incite a laugh. I fear one day the "playful bickering" will escalate up to anal sex, with the recipient shouting, "oh man, you got me good!"
I inquired about it once. One of them explained, "Well, if you were comfortable with your sexuality you wouldn't mind."
I then responded, "I am comfortable, which is why I don't feel the need to verify/validate like you do."
Where does this come from? Why do (seemingly) straight males act this way towards one another?
Some straight acquaintances I personally know enjoy "mooning" one another so much so that they did it for an hour while camping in the middle of nowhere. Keep in mind these are all males. I may understand the humor in a single mooning with clever timing, but for an entire hour? They find humor in acting like such towards one another all the time. They have sent pictures of their own genitalia to one another to incite a laugh. I fear one day the "playful bickering" will escalate up to anal sex, with the recipient shouting, "oh man, you got me good!"
I inquired about it once. One of them explained, "Well, if you were comfortable with your sexuality you wouldn't mind."
I then responded, "I am comfortable, which is why I don't feel the need to verify/validate like you do."
Where does this come from? Why do (seemingly) straight males act this way towards one another?