IZthe411
Carerra Lu
- Joined
- Jul 19, 2009
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- MBTI Type
- INTJ
Are ENTPs prone to be very selfish?
Long/Short- I did a big favor for my 'best' friend. He failed to keep his part of the deal, made promises he didn't keep, and even when I asked him outright, he denied there was any problem on his part. So I went out one night and took possession back of the 'big favor'. I can't believe how he reacted. he was really hurt. He said I was harsh, I didn't give him a chance, yadda yadda. There was no real admittance on his part, when I gave him over year to get to that point!
I was thinking- Can NeTi make one really fail to see that he's THE problem? He really failed to see how frustrated and serious I was, and didn't see my constant phone calls and text messages as warnings.
Long/Short- I did a big favor for my 'best' friend. He failed to keep his part of the deal, made promises he didn't keep, and even when I asked him outright, he denied there was any problem on his part. So I went out one night and took possession back of the 'big favor'. I can't believe how he reacted. he was really hurt. He said I was harsh, I didn't give him a chance, yadda yadda. There was no real admittance on his part, when I gave him over year to get to that point!
I was thinking- Can NeTi make one really fail to see that he's THE problem? He really failed to see how frustrated and serious I was, and didn't see my constant phone calls and text messages as warnings.