HotpinkHeatwave
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- Nov 30, 2009
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- MBTI Type
- ENFP
Over a year and a half ago, I posted a topic about being weary about getting into an relationship with an ENTJ.
Well, it happened, and it was a serious relationship. We moved in together, and near the end, the subject of having kids even came up.
However, the relationship ended horribly.
Through-out it, we argued a lot. He was always pushing me to "be better". He was your typical ENTJ; hard working, a high achiever, and so on.
Me? Your typical ENFP. Head in the clouds, play before work, you know the rest.
Living together was the worst idea. I procrastinated a lot, and was an "organized-mess". But, I still got things done. Like dishes, doing laundry, etc.
He hated it. He hated how long it took me to do things, thought I was lazy and a slob.
We broke up because one night he got very drunk, and because I wasn't home cleaning, he ran his car into my truck.
Needless to say, that was it. I almost regret dating him - He was an egotistical ass.
My advice? ENFPs: ENTJs probably aren't your best bet.
Well, it happened, and it was a serious relationship. We moved in together, and near the end, the subject of having kids even came up.
However, the relationship ended horribly.
Through-out it, we argued a lot. He was always pushing me to "be better". He was your typical ENTJ; hard working, a high achiever, and so on.
Me? Your typical ENFP. Head in the clouds, play before work, you know the rest.
Living together was the worst idea. I procrastinated a lot, and was an "organized-mess". But, I still got things done. Like dishes, doing laundry, etc.
He hated it. He hated how long it took me to do things, thought I was lazy and a slob.
We broke up because one night he got very drunk, and because I wasn't home cleaning, he ran his car into my truck.
Needless to say, that was it. I almost regret dating him - He was an egotistical ass.
My advice? ENFPs: ENTJs probably aren't your best bet.