ESFPs are suppose to be the 3rd most popular personality in the US for females. Do you think ESFP is as common in Asia?
What is your view of Asia?
[MENTION=19503]Comeback Girl[/MENTION]
I would like to know these stories of China.
Do you wear things like the Claddagh ring? How does one know an ESFP is open to the possibility of dating.
I used to have a ring like that, but the only reason I bought it, was because I liked how it looked. However, I lost it within a few days. I'm not good with tiny things, I lose them quite quickly.
I think one of the best ways to get to know if an ESFP is open to dating, is by asking them. However, I think lots of ESFPs might say they're not while they're actually open or indifferent about it. Most of the time I'm not really open to dating, except when I actually start liking someone. If you think asking isn't the way to go, just try checking if there's any chemistry (but only if you're good at that).
I am absolutely horrible with that.
I've only come to learn recently that ESFPs are supposedly more compatible with INTJs. I think it probably has something to do with that Fi thing.
Most of the time, it feels like I'm not allowed to be myself and I am hoping to be my self around an ESFP. I'm hoping to identify one so that I can place myself in the situation that it would somehow cause the chemistry to happen naturally, even though I am basically manipulating the situation. I still want it to happen naturally.
There for I'm trying to find markers to help me identify who is who. I always seem to end up with the Fe types in general, that has a cadenza over how things should be and not how it can be.
Fe-doms don't yolo, that's the difference.
Now imagine you were working as a waitress, and you tell me that I should let you know when I am ready to order after having a nice chat with me. What would you be doing when it seems like I'm taking my time and not giving out the signal as to letting you know that I am ready.
a) decide to to come over anyway
b) run around doing something else
c) other, explain
Do you like to watch movies?
Have you ever binge-watched an entire series or season of a TV show?
Well I'm lost honestly, you will have to explain to me how an ESFP seduces. You don't have to go far, just until the guy is seduced and reciprocating. Surely you do it differently to others would do it. So lets have it then. And also, how do you know the guy is not interested?[MENTION=20044]chubber[/MENTION]
Define seducing a guy, what is the furthest you would go when seducing a guy and when would you give up?
Idk, seducing is seducing. I usually give up when I notice he really isn't interested in me and probably won't be, no matter how hard I try.
Do ESFPs generally need a lot of affirmation? 6 meaningful non-sexual touches per day (hugs, kisses, etc.) Saying "l love you" at least 2 or 3 times a day. Setting time each week for a "date." Spontaneous showering of gifts when there is no occasion.
Needing is a big word, but we sure like it, as long as we feel like the person who gives us that affirmation actually means it. I think that's the most important thing: there is no point to it if you don't mean it, we feel it if you don't mean it.
Well I'm lost honestly, you will have to explain to me how an ESFP seduces. You don't have to go far, just until the guy is seduced and reciprocating. Surely you do it differently to others would do it. So lets have it then. And also, how do you know the guy is not interested?
How would you know, when the affirmation is not meant?
Because I am really interested in finding an ESFP.I'm starting to get curious why you're so curious about how an ESFP seduces. But whatever.
I have read that ESFPs are proactive, but now that you have gone in more detail, I see, that the guy still has to play some role in this "game".Well, seducing, what's that all about? I'm just making sure he notices me and I try to seem as friendly and attractive as possible. If I get a bad response, I back off and leave him the fuck alone. If I don't get a bad response, I usually get a little touchy-feely, but not too much. When I get to this point, I let the guy take over all control, that means that if I don't get an active response, this is as far as I go. If he really is interested, he'll try to make a move too. People already overestimate how sexually motivated my actions are, I don't want guys to feel raped.
Well have you read an INTJ yet?Knowing if a guy is interested and if affirmation is meant, has to do with reading body language and facial expressions and picking up little signals. I don't know if this goes for all ESFPs, but I'm really good at it. To me it's very easy to see if a seemingly happy person is really happy, or if a seemingly happy couple is going to last for a while, or if a seemingly respectable person isn't hiding something. It comes natural to me, I'm just surprised that others tend to have such a hard time reading people. So that's how I know if affirmation is meant or if a guy is interested: I just know it.